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Back-to-school season is upon us, and this can bring up a lot for both kids and adults. From excitement and anticipation to anxiety and sadness, the range of emotions can be overwhelming. Today, we’re offering practical tips and strategies to help you and your child(ren) thrive throughout this transition and go back to school happy and healthy.

Preparing your child for back-to-school: A mental health checklist

As parents, we often focus on the practical aspects of back-to-school: getting supplies ready, learning new schedules, and so forth. But for both parents and kids, the hardest part of returning to school is often coping with the change and its effects on mental health.

Change is hard for kids. That’s why predictability and routines are so highly emphasized by childhood development experts; when a child’s life is predictable, they feel safe. This doesn’t mean that transitions and changes can’t be navigated successfully – but you might have to make sure you’re supporting your child’s mental health throughout this process.

Here’s a checklist of some things you can do to help your child navigate the big change of “back-to-school” with courage and resilience.

  • Establish a routine: Start establishing a consistent routine a few weeks before school starts to make the change more gradual. This includes regular bedtimes, wake-up times, and meal times. A predictable routine can help your child feel more secure and reduce anxiety.
  • Discuss expectations: Talk to your child about what to expect when school starts. Discuss their new schedule, any changes in transportation, and what their daily routine will look like. Knowing what to expect can help reduce anxiety.
  • Encourage open communication: Create a safe space for your child to express their feelings about going back to school. Let them know it’s okay to feel nervous, excited, or even scared. Validate their feelings instead of minimizing them. For example, try to avoid saying things like, “It’ll be fine,” or “There’s nothing to worry about.”
  • Visit the school campus: If it’s possible, consider going with your child to visit the school before the first day. Show your child where their classroom is, the cafeteria, the bathrooms, etc. When your child is familiar with their environment, they may be less anxious.
  • Role-play scenarios: Role-play different school scenarios with your child, such as meeting new classmates, asking the teacher for help, or dealing with a difficult situation. This can help them feel more prepared and confident.
  • Create a worry jar: Encourage your child to write down their worries about school and put them in a ‘worry jar.’ Set aside a specific time each day to go through the worries together and come up with strategies to deal with them. This can help open
  • Practice relaxation techniques: Teach your child simple relaxation techniques like deep breathing, mindfulness, or muscle relaxation strategies. These techniques can be used anywhere, even at their desk, and can be a good coping skill if they start to feel overwhelmed at school.
  • Focus on the positives: Without undermining your child’s anxiety or stress, try to help them focus on the positives of back-to-school. What are some things, however minor, that they’re excited about?
  • Create a visual schedule: Especially for younger children, create a visual schedule for the first few weeks of school can be helpful. Include activities, school hours, and any special events. This can help your child visualize their day and feel more in control.
  • Establish a calming bedtime routine: Getting enough restful sleep is essential to mental health. A calming bedtime routine can help your child unwind and get a good night’s sleep. Consider activities like reading a book, listening to soothing music, or practicing relaxation exercises.
  • Prepare a comfort item: If it’s okay with their teacher, allow your child to bring a small comfort item to school, such as a keychain, a small toy, or a family photo. This is sometimes called a transitional object, and can provide a sense of security and familiarity in a new environment. Transitional objects can also help with separation anxiety.
  • Monitor and adjust: Even if their first day back at school goes well, continue to regularly check in with your child to see how they’re coping with the transition. Be flexible and ready to adjust your approach based on their needs and feedback.

Tips for parents during back-to-school season

As hard as back-to-school season can be for kids, it can be just as challenging – if not more so – for parents. Back-to-school brings up a wide range of emotions, from relief (you’ll get some of your free time back!) to sadness and anxiety (you’ll miss having your child at home with you, and you’re nervous about how they’ll fare at school).

As a parent, it’s important to take care of yourself, too. While you go through the above mental health checklist to support your child at this time, make sure you’re also paying attention to how you feel and any support that you might need to cope well with this transition.

These tips for parents may help:

  • Allow all emotions to be present, even if they’re uncomfortable. It’s normal to feel a mix of relief, sadness, anxiety, and excitement as your child heads back to school. Accepting and acknowledging these emotions without judgment can help you process them more effectively and provide a healthy model for your child.
  • Let go of perfectionism – the first day of school will probably be chaotic; to keep your sanity, it may help to remember that this day doesn’t need to be “Pinterest-perfect.” Embrace the messiness and focus on what truly matters: your child’s well-being and happiness. A few forgotten items or a rushed breakfast won’t overshadow the love and support you provide.
  • Maintain a consistent routine for yourself to help manage stress and keep things predictable. Establishing regular self-care practices, such as exercise, meditation, or reading, can provide stability and help you stay grounded during this transitional period.
  • Communicate openly with your partner or other family members about how you’re feeling. Sharing your experiences and emotions can provide mutual support and help you feel less isolated. Working together as a team can make the back-to-school transition smoother for everyone involved.
  • Allow yourself to seek professional help if needed. Talking to a counselor can help you identify and manage painful feelings that may arise as your little one goes off to school. A therapist or counselor can also provide tools and strategies to cope with anxiety, sadness, or other challenging emotions, and ensure that you’re well-supported during this time.

Reaching out to your EAP can be a great way to get mental health support during this transition as well as other challenging times you might face. At MINES & Associates, we offer 24/7 free and confidential counseling for our members, as well as parenting coaching services to help you navigate the back-to-school season and all the other challenges of being a parent.

MINES is wishing you and your family a happy 24-25 school year!

 

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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Mental Health Awareness Month: How Far We’ve Come and How Far We Have Left to Go https://minesandassociates.com/mental-health-awareness-month-how-far-weve-come-and-how-far-we-have-left-to-go/ https://minesandassociates.com/mental-health-awareness-month-how-far-weve-come-and-how-far-we-have-left-to-go/#respond Wed, 01 May 2024 15:48:35 +0000 https://minesandassociates.com/?p=5820 Happy Mental Health Awareness Month 2024! Conversations around mental health have thankfully become more open in recent years. While this progress is significant, many people are still hesitant to seek help due to stigma and a lack of awareness. Today, we’ll dig into how mental health awareness has progressed in recent years, what still needs [...]

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Happy Mental Health Awareness Month 2024! Conversations around mental health have thankfully become more open in recent years. While this progress is significant, many people are still hesitant to seek help due to stigma and a lack of awareness.

Today, we’ll dig into how mental health awareness has progressed in recent years, what still needs to change, and how we can all do our part.

Mental health awareness is growing

One important trend worth celebrating this month is how far we’ve come in terms of mental health awareness. In decades past, people with mental health issues were treated as social rejects. People generally didn’t talk openly about mental health. Mental illness was associated with negative character traits like laziness, dangerousness, and violence.

This had very real consequences for people with mental illness. Not only were they ostracized from society, facing severe discrimination in areas like employment and housing, but the “treatment” they received was often inhumane.

Although stigma against mental health issues still widely exists across cultures, we’ve come a long way. Newer generations are talking openly and publicly about their mental health struggles. We have a better understanding that mental health comes on a spectrum; just like physical health, mental health is something that affects every one of us, regardless of whether we live with a mental illness.

The public is now more accepting of mental health concerns, especially common ones like depression and anxiety. However, research shows that the public stigma against severe and persistent mental illness (like schizophrenia) isn’t improving, and may even be getting worse.

We still have a long way to go, but there is light at the end of the tunnel.

More people are diagnosed with mental health disorders

Another big change that’s happened over the decades is that the rates of diagnosed mental illness are growing. For example, nearly 30% of Americans live with depression today – around 10 percentage points higher than the number of people with depression in 2015.

On the surface, this is a negative trend. Experts attribute the increase in rates of mental illness to factors like social isolation and loneliness, increased stress, and new technologies like social media and smartphones.

But when we look deeper, there may be some positive aspects of this trend as well. People who were previously not seeking a diagnosis or support may now feel safe enough to do so. In addition, increased awareness of what mental illness can look like – and that you can live with mental health problems like depression and anxiety even if you function well in daily life – could help people realize that they may need support.

More people are getting mental health support

A larger percentage of people have also received mental health treatment in recent years. A 2022 CDC report found that over 23% of adults aged 18 to 44 received mental health care in 2021 compared with around 18% in 2019.

This increase is also not a black-and-white issue. While it’s positive that more people are receiving support, the rise in numbers could also be indicative of the fact that more people are getting diagnosed with mental illness.

In addition, there is still a large unmet need when it comes to mental health treatment access in America. According to Mental Health America’s 2023 Mental Health in America report, over half of U.S. adults with a mental illness receive no treatment – that’s around 28 million individuals. The most common reason for not receiving treatment was not being able to afford it, followed by not knowing where to get services.

These numbers tell us that, despite decreasing stigma against mental health problems, too many people still don’t have adequate access to care.

More effective mental health treatments are available

Lastly, scientific research has provided us with innovative treatment methods that are much more effective, especially compared to the treatments that were available (like Freudian psychoanalysis) in the initial days of psychotherapy.

Effective mental health treatments include:

  • Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which has been around since the 1960s, and the therapy methods (like exposure and response prevention and acceptance and commitment therapy) that use CBT concepts
  • Brain stimulation techniques, like TMS therapy
  • Person-centered therapy, which treats patients as worthy human beings rather than “sick patients”
  • Effective psychiatric medications

Many of these treatment methods are also time-effective, meaning that they start working in a shorter amount of time. Thanks to these treatment methods available today, many people who live with mental illness are able to start feeling better within months.

How to increase mental health awareness

As a society, we’ve had many improvements in terms of mental health awareness. Despite this, mental health stigma is still widespread, and too many people don’t have access to the treatment they need. This Mental Health Awareness Month, here are some simple things that you can do to help further the conversation:

  • Educate yourself and others: Take some time to learn about common mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, and PTSD. Understand the signs and symptoms so you can recognize them in yourself or others. There are many reputable online resources and organizations that offer free educational materials, including Mental Health America and the MINES website.
  • Listen without judgment: When someone chooses to confide in you about their mental health struggles, practice active listening. Give them your full attention and avoid interrupting or offering unsolicited advice. Instead, focus on validating their feelings and showing empathy.
  • Challenge stigma: Negative stereotypes and misinformation about mental health can be incredibly harmful. If you hear someone making insensitive remarks, politely correct them with accurate information. When opportunities arise, open conversations about mental health to normalize seeking help.
  • Promote self-care: Encourage healthy habits that contribute to overall well-being. Mental health is about more than the absence of mental illness! This could include getting enough sleep (7-8 hours per night for adults), eating a balanced diet, and exercising regularly. Mindfulness practices like meditation or yoga can also be helpful.
  • Lead by example: Openly discussing your own mental health journey (if you feel comfortable) can be a powerful way to break down stigma. Talking about your own experiences with self-care and prioritizing your well-being can inspire others to do the same. It’s important to remember to set healthy boundaries when discussing personal matters.
  • Get mental health support: One reason people don’t get the treatment they need is because they don’t know where to find it. Learn how you can get access to mental health treatment if and when you need it. Going through your workplace’s employee assistance program (EAP) can be a great first step to receiving counseling and referrals to long-term resources. MINES & Associates offers free 24/7 confidential counseling for all of our members!

Happy Mental Health Awareness Month!

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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Eating Disorders in the Workplace: How to Support Employees Suffering in Silence https://minesandassociates.com/eating-disorders-in-the-workplace-how-to-support-employees-suffering-in-silence/ https://minesandassociates.com/eating-disorders-in-the-workplace-how-to-support-employees-suffering-in-silence/#respond Mon, 26 Feb 2024 16:32:41 +0000 https://minesandassociates.com/?p=5712 Nearly 30 million Americans – 9% of the population – will live with an eating disorder in their lifetimes. But as common as eating disorders are, they’re still shrouded with so much stigma and misinformation. Because of this and other factors, only half of people who have eating disorders ever seek help. This National Eating [...]

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Nearly 30 million Americans – 9% of the population – will live with an eating disorder in their lifetimes. But as common as eating disorders are, they’re still shrouded with so much stigma and misinformation. Because of this and other factors, only half of people who have eating disorders ever seek help.

This National Eating Disorder Awareness Week, MINES & Associates is taking the time to shine a light on eating disorders, how they manifest in the workplace, and how you can support colleagues and employees who have eating disorders – and who may be suffering in silence.

What is an eating disorder, and how do they present in the workplace?

Eating disorders are a complex category of mental illness characterized by an unhealthy relationship with food and – usually, although there are some exceptions – body image. There is a wide variety of eating disorder types, and they each have different symptoms. Some eating disorders cause people to severely restrict caloric intake, while others cause people to go through binge-eating episodes.

Generally, eating disorders are some of the most deadly mental illnesses that exist – anorexia nervosa, in particular, has the highest mortality rate of any psychiatric disorder. Eating disorders are not just “extreme dieting” – they are severely harmful to physical and mental health. We need to take them seriously.

With so many Americans living with an eating disorder today, it’s likely that at least one person in your workplace is facing this. However, because of the stigma and misunderstandings surrounding eating disorders, you may not be able to recognize the signs if you’re not aware of how eating disorders present.

Some signs that someone in your workplace may have an eating disorder include:

  • Talking a lot about body shape and appearance
  • Avoiding work gatherings where food is involved
  • Having low energy or appearing lethargic
  • Frequent trips to the bathroom, especially after eating
  • Changes in appearance, like significant weight loss or gain, or looking pale
  • Wearing baggier clothes to hide weight changes
  • Constantly checking one’s appearance in mirrors
  • Eating in isolation or being overly secretive about food and meals
  • Decreased productivity and lack of concentration
  • Expressing constant dissatisfaction with one’s body
  • Preparing elaborate meals for others, but not eating the meals themselves

Keep in mind that although some eating disorders, like anorexia, can cause significant weight loss for some, most people with eating disorders aren’t underweight. You cannot spot an eating disorder just by looking at someone’s weight or appearance.

People who live with eating disorders can also be very high-functioning in the workplace, so don’t make the mistake of only looking at employees whose performance is faltering.

Perfectionism is a personality trait that’s highly linked with eating disorders in the literature. This perfectionism could lead someone with an eating disorder to reach for the highest achievements and accolades at work. However, over the long term, an eating disorder can negatively affect productivity and focus.

How to support someone with an eating disorder

If someone you work with is living with an eating disorder, they’re likely suffering alone. Eating disorders are often very isolating disorders that cause feelings of deep shame and guilt. People with eating disorders need treatment, but it may take time for them to be ready to come face-to-face with this fact. However, there are ways to support someone with an eating disorder even if they aren’t ready for treatment.

Here are some tips to support an employee or colleague who you suspect has an eating disorder.

Watch how you talk about your own body

Even if you don’t have an eating disorder, many of us have unhealthy views about food and our bodies. Talking negatively about your own body can be triggering for your colleagues with eating disorders.

For example, you might nonchalantly comment about skipping lunch because you overate last night, or make remarks about how a sweater makes you “look fat.” Although you may not live with an eating disorder, these off-hand comments can be triggering for people who do.

Watch the way you talk about your body and eating. You don’t need to express over-the-top positive feelings about your body – this might be triggering as well – but try to stay body-neutral, or avoid talking about your body altogether.

If you express concern, don’t focus on weight

You may have suspicions that someone has an eating disorder, and decide to express your concern. Whether or not you choose to approach the person is up to you and depends greatly on the relationship you have with them. But if you do decide to express concern, don’t focus on their weight – express concern about their overall mental health instead.

For example, let’s say you’ve noticed a colleague rapidly losing weight, although they’ve started wearing baggier clothes to try to hide it. They never seem to eat lunch, saying they had a big breakfast. You notice that they often come into work looking exhausted, and they’re calling out sick much more often than usual.

You may have concerns about an eating disorder, but it’s important not to make assumptions – many health conditions can cause these symptoms. If you choose to express concern, don’t talk about their body or weight. Instead of saying, “You’re looking too skinny lately. Are you eating enough?” say something like, “I’m concerned about you. You seem to be really tired all the time and you’re getting sick a lot. You just don’t seem like yourself. Is everything okay? I’m here to talk if you need to.”

If they share, listen

If a colleague shares with you that they live with an eating disorder, listen with empathy. Understand that telling you about their struggles is a sign of great trust, and respect the conversation as such.

Avoid all judgment; eating disorders are mental health conditions, just like depression or anxiety. The person is not “choosing” to have the relationship that they have with food, so avoid comments like, ‘Why would you starve yourself like that?”.

You may feel the desire to help the person in some way, but it’s best to avoid unsolicited advice. Listen to them openly, and ask how you can support them.

Provide flexible working arrangements

Eating disorders are included in the American Disabilities Act, which means that any employee who discloses that they live with an eating disorder has the right to reasonable accommodations to be able to perform their job duties. Providing flexible working arrangements can help employees with eating disorders continue to succeed in their jobs while recovering.

Examples of workplace accommodations for eating disorders could include:

  • Flexible working hours to allow for treatment appointments
  • A private eating space during breaks (many people with eating disorders are uncomfortable eating in front of others)
  • Leaves of absence for residential treatment, if necessary
  • Access to support and resources, like an employee mental health program

Encourage professional treatment

Lastly, eating disorders don’t go away on their own. If your colleague is open to it, encourage professional treatment. Offer to help them look for resources – the difference between, “You should really get therapy,” and “I know it can be overwhelming to look for resources. I can help you call providers on our insurance plan,” can be life-changing.

The MINES & Associates Employee Assistance Program is a great place to start eating disorder support. We offer 24/7 confidential counseling to all of our members, and can refer to more specialized eating disorder resources as necessary. Call 1-800-873-7138 for support now.

 

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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It’s the most wonderful time of the year – except for many people, it’s anything but.

If the holidays bring more stress than cheer for you, you’re not alone. The holidays are a time of year when obligations seem to pile up. You may have family gatherings to attend and shopping to complete. And if you’re working on top of that through the holidays, life could quickly start feeling overwhelming this time of year.

The holidays may not be “stress-free” for anyone. But with these tips, you can make sure you’re protecting your mental well-being while you navigate all the challenges the season throws at you.

Here are 7 tips to cope with holiday stress both at work and at home.

Take a break

Some companies close down for the holidays. But even if your workplace doesn’t, you may want to consider the possibility of taking some time away. Taking a break can be a good way to intentionally slow down during this hectic time of year.

Talk to your supervisor about the possibility of taking some time away. If you work in a setting that’s busier than usual (and impossible to escape) during the holidays – such as in retail – you can still talk to your supervisor about when it might be possible for you to take some time off. Having a vacation to look forward to may help you get through the stress of the season.

There are also smaller, but still impactful, ways to take breaks that don’t require you to go on a lengthy vacation. For example, go out for a nice lunch instead of eating at your desk. Take the long, scenic way home from work. Practice a 5-minute mindfulness meditation.

Maintain boundaries with colleagues and family

Family gatherings are a joyful occasion for some, and a nerve-wracking one for others. The same goes for company parties. These are often times when loved ones and colleagues tend to push your personal boundaries. They might ask you personal questions you aren’t comfortable answering. Or they may expect you to take on more tasks (or attend more events) than you feel like you have the time and energy for.

Practice setting, and maintaining, personal boundaries with both colleagues and family members. Use assertive communication.

For example, you could decline your boss’ request to work overtime by saying something like: “I usually would be happy to support the team in this way. But I had set aside my evening to bake cookies with my daughter; it’s a tradition that’s really important to her. If there’s another way I can support the team, please let me know.”

Keep a routine

A big part of why the holidays are so stressful for so many of us is because our usual routines get disrupted. This has a big impact on important health behaviors like your sleep, eating, and exercise schedules.

It’s normal for these routines to be disrupted during the holidays. But as much as possible, try to keep your regular schedule. Getting 7 to 9 hours of restful sleep every night is especially important. Being sleep-deprived can you feel more stressed, anxious, and depressed than you already are. Physical exercise can also be a very effective tool to combat holiday stress.

The more you can stick to these regular self-care routines, the better.

Let go of perfection

Sometimes, holiday stress accumulates because of the pressure for everything to be perfect. There is so much pressure during the holidays to be “jolly” every minute of every day. A lot of us feel like we need to prepare a perfect holiday feast for our perfect families, just like a scene from a holiday greeting card.

This is far from reality – and this can be disappointing and stressful. This year, let go of the expectation of perfection. Understand that things will go wrong, and that’s okay. Focus on the things about the holiday season that are important to you, whether that’s family, spirituality, or giving back to the community. Allow yourself to let the rest go.

Plan ahead

One of the best ways to tackle holiday stress is to have a solid plan going into it. When you know what to expect, you may feel better prepared for the emotional and financial impact of the holidays.

Examples of helpful planning include:

  • Ask for days off in advance
  • Set a budget, and stick to it
  • Set aside specific days for shopping, baking, gift-wrapping, etc.
  • Prioritize work projects and schedule hours for “deep work”

Be careful of alcohol

For many families, alcohol is a big part of holiday gatherings. Many people may also drink more during the holidays to cope with the stress that this season brings.

This is completely understandable. At the same time, alcohol is closely linked to several mental health challenges, including depression, anxiety, and insomnia. Having a glass of wine after work probably won’t hurt, but excessive drinking may make you feel even more stressed. Be conscious of how much alcohol you’re consuming.

If you think you may have an addiction to alcohol, then professional treatment can help. You can locate substance abuse treatment near you by calling the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) helpline at 1-800-622-HELP.

Seek support

A counselor or a therapist can be a dependable source of support for you during the holidays. If you aren’t already working with a therapist, reach out to your company’s EAP (Employee Assistance Program). Your human resources department can connect you.

MINES & Associates’ EAP program offers free and confidential counseling that’s available to you 24/7. Whatever you’re going through, we are here to help. In addition, we also offer financial, legal, and parenting support as well as professional wellness coaching. We can help you get through the holidays with your mental health intact.

A very Happy Holidays to you and your family from the MINES team!

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November is Early Childhood Mental Health Awareness Month. The topic of children’s mental health is so important to talk about openly because as adults – especially parents – it’s our responsibility to make sure our world’s young people are healthy both physically and mentally.

Although mental health awareness overall has come a long way, we tend to leave infants and young children out of the conversation. But research shows that our littlest humans can face mental health challenges too – and the earlier we intervene, the better chance they have at growing into happy and thriving adults.

In today’s blog, we’ll cover the basics of early childhood mental health and give you some tips on how you can promote positive mental health in your own little ones.

What is early childhood mental health?

Early childhood mental health typically refers to the mental health of children between 0 to 8 years of age.

Many people are confused when they hear the term “early childhood mental health.” You might be off-put by the idea of young children being diagnosed with or treated for mental health disorders. After all, they’re only kids – right?

Sadly, many more young children live with mental health conditions than you might believe. Reports show that up to 17% of children are diagnosed with a mental illness before they’re 6. Even very young children show clear symptoms of anxiety disorders, depression, post-traumatic stress, and more.

But the topic of early childhood mental health doesn’t just affect children with mental health challenges. Mental health should be a priority for all children, especially during the important early childhood years when the brain is developing at a rapid pace. It’s not just about treating childhood mental illness – it’s about promoting strong mental health in all young children.

What do mental health problems look like in early childhood?

Young children can show signs of a wide range of mental health problems, from mood disorders to neurodivergence and sensory processing issues. Let’s look at some of the most common categories of early childhood mental health symptoms.

Attachment disorders and trauma

One of the most important things that happens during a baby’s life is the attachment they build with their caregiver(s). When there is neglect or abuse present in these relationships, then reactive attachment disorder and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can develop.

Abuse and neglect can severely impact a child’s developing brain, stunt their growth, and lead to serious physical and mental health consequences further down the line.

In infants and young children, attachment and trauma-related disorders might look like:

  • Severe separation anxiety
  • Not being soothed when reunited with their caregiver(s)
  • Being indiscriminately attached to any adult and showing no preference for their caregiver(s)
  • Hypervigilance; being jumpy or easily startled
  • Avoiding the caregiver(s)
  • Themes of trauma in play

Feeding disorders

Feeding disorders Sometimes, difficulty with food and feeding is a physical health problem – but often, it’s related to the child’s mental health. Even so, leaving a feeding disorder untreated can lead to stunted growth and poor development in the muscles involved in swallowing.

An early childhood feeding disorder can look like:

  • A lack of interest in food or eating
  • Difficulty achieving a relaxed state while eating (for example, the infant may be overly agitated)
  • Refusal of food
  • Using mealtimes to interact with caregivers rather than to eat
  • Avoidance of specific foods based on texture, taste, smell, or other features
  • No age-appropriate interaction with caregivers (like eye contact) during mealtimes

Hyperactivity and ADHD

Over 250,000 U.S. children aged 3 to 5 are diagnosed with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). This condition leads children to have difficulty regulating their focus and energy levels.

Some signs of ADHD in young children include:

  • More tantrums and emotional outbursts than other children their age
  • Constantly being in motion, even more than other young children
  • Reckless behavior to the point of endangering themselves
  • Aggression toward self or others
  • Difficulty falling asleep or little need for sleep
  • Extreme impatience with others
  • Loses interest in activities after only a few moments, even activities of their choosing

Anxiety and depression

As unbelievable as it may seem to some, even infants can be depressed and anxious. Reports show that around 1 in 40 children aged 0 to 5 have depression. Depression in parents makes it more likely that the infant or child will also have depression.

Signs of depression and anxiety in infants and toddlers include:

  • Regressing to a previous stage of development
  • Being withdrawn or staring into space
  • Not engaging socially with caregiver(s)
  • Excessive whining
  • No interest in developmentally appropriate toys and activities
  • Clinginess
  • Breath-holding in toddlers
  • Sleep issues

What causes mental health problems in early childhood?

As is the case with teens and adults, there’s not one singular cause of early childhood mental health problems.

Experts say that many different factors come together to make some children more at risk for developing mental health issues, including:

  • Genetics: Some children are genetically predisposed to developing mental health problems, but this doesn’t mean that every child with these genes will have issues 100% of the time. It simply means that they may be at higher risk.
  • Toxic stress: Being exposed to traumatic and stressful events (like abuse and neglect) over and over again can lead to toxic stress. Toxic stress can severely damage a baby’s brain development and make it much more likely for children to develop mental health problems, either right away or later on down the road.
  • Biological factors: Some early childhood mental health concerns, like ADHD or certain feeding disorders, are a direct result of biological differences in the brain.
  • Family history and parental stress: Family history also comes into play. Babies whose parents have postpartum depression are more likely to have depression themselves.

What can we do to support early childhood mental health?

If you’re a parent, you’re probably asking yourself: What can I do to protect my baby’s mental health? How can I decrease the odds that my child will have mental health problems, either now or as an adult?

Although there are many factors outside of our control, there are many things that you can do as a parent to help promote your child’s brain and emotional development and protect their mental health.

  • Build a secure attachment: Foster a secure attachment with your child by responding to their needs promptly and consistently. This helps them feel safe and loved.
  • Create a safe home environment: Ensure that the home environment is safe, free from hazards, and provides a sense of security for your child. Consistency and predictability are key for building safety.
  • Emotional regulation: Help your child learn to regulate their emotions by modeling appropriate emotional responses and providing comfort when they’re upset.
  • Engage in play: Play isn’t just fun – it’s essential for a child’s development. Engage in age-appropriate play that encourages creativity, exploration, and social interaction.
  • Create healthy routines: Establish consistent daily routines for feeding, sleeping, and playtime. Predictability can help children feel secure.
  • Nutrition and sleep: Ensure that your child has a balanced diet and gets enough restful sleep. Both nutrition and rest are essential for mental health.
  • Positive discipline: Use positive discipline strategies that focus on teaching and guiding rather than punishment. This helps your child learn boundaries without feeling shame or guilt.
  • Read and communicate: Reading to your child and engaging in “baby talk” and conversations from an early age can enhance their language development and cognitive skills.
  • Lean on your support system: Caring for an infant or toddler can be exhausting, and it’s important for you to take care of your own mental health and take breaks when you need them. Seek support from friends, family, or mental health professionals.
  • Protect your own mental health: Your well-being is closely linked to your child’s well-being. Be aware of your own mental health and get counseling when you need it.
  • Educate yourself: Learn as much as you can about child development and parenting techniques. Attend parenting classes or workshops if possible.
  • Seek professional help: If you have concerns about your child’s behavior or development, don’t hesitate to consult a pediatrician or a child psychologist. Early intervention is critical in preventing these problems from getting worse.

At MINES, we want to help you and your child thrive and stay mentally healthy. We provide comprehensive Parental Coaching and Lactation Consultation services to help you be the best parent you can be for your precious little one.

Through our Parental Coaching program, you receive 4 phone coaching sessions per year to address the most challenging aspects of parenthood. Our experienced coaches are here to support you through any concerns that you may have about this journey.

If you need mental health support for yourself, you also have access to 24/7 free and confidential counseling with a licensed mental health provider.

Let’s all work together to protect the mental health of our youngest and most precious citizens.

 

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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Guest article from MINES’ Trainer and Alzheimer’s/Dementia Expert JJ Jordan

November brings cooler weather, the anticipation of the fall and winter holidays, and reflections regarding the year that is wrapping up. It is also National Alzheimer’s Awareness Month, giving me the opportunity to provide updates on the amazing progress that was made this year!  In my 20 years in this field, I have never been more optimistic that major breakthroughs are right around the corner. The last 2-4 years have been jam-packed with milestones and I believe the next 2-4 years will be pivotal in our quest for a world without Alzheimer’s and related dementias. For those of you who may have read this November awareness blog before, when the “solution” occurs, I plan to throw a party for the entire world.  Of course, you will all be invited so watch for your invitation – I am serious when I say it will be coming sooner than many of you might ever imagine!

As always, a quick reminder of the reason that Alzheimer’s/dementia is my passion. Just as I was at the peak of my corporate career, three of our four parents in my immediate family were diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.  The diagnoses all came in within about 18 months and we were completely ignorant about the subject and how to begin what would turn out to be a decades-long journey through the complicated world of dementia.  Our folks lived for 16, 14, and 11 years with the disease and to say it changed every aspect of our lives would be a vast understatement. I could never have predicted that the news would result in my completely reinventing myself in this field. While some may find it hard to imagine a silver lining to anything remotely involved with Alzheimer’s, this could be a case in that I found my special purpose, (although a bit later in life.) Everything I now do both professionally and philanthropically revolves around what is officially called Alzheimer’s Disease and Related Dementias. (ADRD).

Where do I begin to brief you on the many new flashes from the past 12 months?  First, I have literally waited 20 years to be able to tell you all that there is now a viable treatment for Alzheimer’s disease!

In January of 2023, the FDA granted accelerated approval for a drug called lecanemab, (brand name Leqembi.) Here is a rundown of the key facts about the drug.

  • For early-stage Alzheimer’s patients only – not for other types of dementia
  • Reduces toxic build-up of beta-amyloid in the brain
  • Trials showed a 27% slowing of cognitive decline
  • Side effects are fewer than preliminary 2021 treatment but can be serious
  • Physicians will qualify patients based on verification of early-stage status
  • Qualification will also depend on the patient’s health and tolerance for side effects
  • This is not a cure – the drug will not restore lost function
  • The intent is to help mark time until the next big thing comes along – (soon!)
  • Twice monthly injections in a clinical setting – (we are working on at-home treatments)
  • About 600,000 – 700,000 patients could benefit annually from this drug
  • Sense of urgency is acute – 2,000 people move from early to middle stage every day
  • Availability may vary depending on practice/health system adoption in year 1
  • Cost is high – $26, 500 annually plus required PET scans

At this point, let me interrupt myself to mention that Medicare/Medicaid had decided not to cover the drug earlier in the year, but that decision was reversed in July 2023 when the FDA granted full approval for the drug.  Yeah!

And…as I teased earlier, there is already a more promising Alzheimer’s treatment on the horizon. Donanemab is expected to be announced by the end of this year. It shows a 35% slowing of decline and in the first year of the trial, 47% of participants showed no further cognitive decline. After 18 months in the trial, 72% quit taking the drug as there was not enough build-up of amyloid in the brain to warrant it. This is incredible preliminary news, I can’t wait to see the actual “reveal” and learn more about this breakthrough.  Stay tuned!

In addition to drug news, in the past 12 months, studies have confirmed that 40% of our risk for dementia is due to modifiable factors. This is the best news ever.  It means that we have control over almost half of our risk. 60% is due to non-modifiable factors like gender, (women make up 2/3 of Alzheimer’s patients), age, race, and ethnicity.  (African Americans are twice as likely to develop Alzheimer’s and Latinos 1.5x more likely.)

Of course, you know I will never write this blog without listing the ten real things each of us can do to reduce our dementia risk so that will be included at the end!

On the gene front, there is a mutant deterministic gene for Alzheimer’s that is carried among about 200 families in the world. Most of those family members will, unfortunately, develop full-blown dementia in their 40’s, 50’s, or 60’s. One gentleman from Columbia is now 72 and is just beginning to show signs of cognitive decline. Researchers have long wondered what has been protecting his brain from the destructive mutant gene he carries and it was found this year in the form of a gene in his DNA!  Studies will now go forward to verify this finding -just think of the impact this discovery will have on all of us.

To wrap up this science/medical news summary, news approaches continue to be investigated. Just this month, I read an article about a UK study that appears to shed light on why Alzheimer’s disease kills brain cells (neurons). This has been a question for the ages. The study reveals evidence that the cause of this cell death may be connected with a gene called MEG3 that is prevalent in brains with amyloid buildup. This gene may be sending a signal to the body to destroy unwanted cells. Studies will now go forward to suppress this gene in patients in hopes of preventing cell destruction.  Exciting!  (Yes I know, I am a nerd)

I also want to report that in my role as a member of the Colorado Department of Health and Environment Dementia Action Coalition, we have written the state’s Alzheimer’s/Dementia Plan and are currently working on implementation.  For those of you who live in Colorado, your state is all over this topic!

As I wrap up, I am pleased to continue in my ninth year on the Mines and Associates team, providing Employee Assistance Plan dementia coaching and client training.  I teach a class titled, Alzheimer’s/Dementia 101 – Facts, Care, Research, Risk Reduction, Treatment that includes everything we all need to know about this hot topic. It is estimated that 1 in 3 working Americans are dealing with dementia in their families. 1 in 2 of us will provide some type of caregiving for someone with some type of dementia in our lifetimes. And because for the first time, we have treatments, denial is a dangerous option. Denying the warning signs for dementia in our loved ones could lead to them being denied critical early-stage drug therapies.

As you may know, I also teach at the University of Denver and do a monthly 75-minute version of my class via Zoom that is open to the public throughout the US. Please reach me at dementiafriendlycolorado.com to receive the registration link for the next session.

In closing and in observation of National Alzheimer’s Awareness Month, let’s all do two things.  First, let’s reduce the stigma surrounding dementia, Stigma is defined as a mark of disgrace relating to a circumstance, quality, or person.  With regard to dementia, let’s all pledge to be a part of the solution, not the problem!  (Thank you!)  Secondly, let’s all make a commitment to take care of our brains. Please join me in being an ambassador, if you will, for this topic. Spread the news. No longer is there nothing we can do about dementia!

Don’t hesitate to reach out to us at Mines and Associates if you are dealing with dementia issues in your family.  We stand ready to help. (800.873.7138)

And finally, as promised, here come the all-important “Dementia Tens”, the Ten Warning Signs, the Ten Risk Factors, and Ten Risk Reducers:

The Ten Dementia Warning Signs

  1. Memory loss that interferes with daily life
  2. Challenges with planning or problem-solving
  3. Difficulties performing familiar tasks
  4. Confusion with time or place
  5. Visual and spatial issues
  6. Problems with words
  7. Misplacing things
  8. Decreased or poor judgment
  9. Withdrawal from work or social activities
  10. Changes in mood or personality

The Ten Dementia Risk Factors

  1. Age
  2. Health Factors (cholesterol, blood pressure, diabetes, inflammation)
  3. Lifestyle Factors (inactivity, poor diet, poor sleep, obesity, smoking, alcohol, stress)
  4. Family History
  5. Genetics
  6. Gender (2/3 of Alzheimer’s patients are women)
  7. Race/Ethnicity (African Americans 2x more like to develop Alzheimer’s – Latinos 1.5 x)
  8. Social Isolation
  9. Lifecourse Factors (childhood diet, rural/urban healthcare, education, stress, poverty)
  10. Traumatic Brain Injury

The Ten Dementia Risk Reducers

  1. Exercise – Regular cardiovascular exercise is the closest thing we have to a silver bullet while we await a cure. Be sure to check with your doctor to make sure it is safe for your overall health.
  2. Diet – Adopt a Mediterranean-type diet high in vegetables, fruits, and lean proteins. Avoid salty, sugary, fatty, and fried foods. Blueberries are awesome for your brain! You can reduce your lifetime risk for dementia by up to 23% by adopting this type of diet!
  3. Sleep – Good sound, natural sleep is critical in allowing your brain to rid itself of toxins. Put your devices in another room, make them cool and dark, and discuss sleep issues with your doctor before taking sleep aids. If you are older, ask your doctor about avoiding a class of drugs called anticholinergics that may increase the risk for dementia.
  4. Heart and Inflammation Health – There is a correlation between dementia and cardiovascular disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and obesity. If it is good for your heart, it’s good for your brain! Air pollution affects your cardiovascular system so mask up as appropriate. Studies also show a correlation between cognitive issues and brain inflammation. Choose salmon, broccoli, walnuts, avocado, berries, and other anti-inflammatory foods in your diet. Discuss inoculations with your doctor to avoid viral illnesses which can increase neuroinflammation. Simply by getting your annual flu shot, studies show you may decrease your risk for dementia by up to 40%!
  5. Smoking/Alcohol – There is a direct correlation between Alzheimer’s disease and smoking. Enough said! If you drink alcohol, always practice moderation.
  6. Mental Health – Depression, stress, and other emotional conditions can negatively affect cognition. Discuss these with your doctor for treatment. Manage your stress through safe exercise, yoga, meditation, or music.
  7. Hearing/Sight Decline – There is an increase in Alzheimer’s/dementia among those with untreated hearing loss in middle to older age. You can reduce your risk by up to 48% simply by wearing hearing devices to treat age-related loss. There should be no stigma regarding hearing devices! Treat cataracts and maintain good vision as you age. Your brain cannot process what you never heard or saw to begin with.
  8. Social Interaction – Involvement with others is critical for brain health. Socialize, (safely of course), by volunteering, taking dance lessons, and enjoying activities with family and friends.
  9. Continual Learning/Brain Engagement – Learn a new language, instrument, or hobby or take classes. While not every brain game may have science behind it, (some do, some don’t – I do them all), exercise your brain through games, puzzles, and new challenges. Games of strategy and those that challenge your peripheral vision are best.
  10. Helmets/Seatbelts – Always use your seatbelt and wear helmets when skiing, snowboarding, during contact sports, and while biking or riding a scooter. Protect your most precious and important asset, your brain!

To Your Wellbeing,

JJ Jordan – The MINES Team

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In September, we recognize Suicide Awareness and Prevention Month, when we discuss and learn how each of us can do our part in preventing suicide. Unfortunately, suicide continues to be a very serious problem both in the United States and globally, and it doesn’t seem to be getting any better. Suicide rates have risen across all states in the past several years, according to the CDC.

Around 4.8% of adults in the U.S. experience serious suicidal thoughts. Tragically, suicide is the second-leading cause of death for children aged 10 to 14; it’s the 3rd leading cause of death for young people aged 15 to 24, and the 12th leading cause of death overall.

It’s clear that suicide is a very serious and growing public health crisis that’s taking lives. But there is something that we all can do to help promote awareness and prevent suicide. This is especially true in the workplace, considering most people who die by suicide are of working age. Employee wellbeing is a cornerstone focus for the team at Mines and Associates.

In today’s MINES blog, we’ll talk in-depth about the topic of suicide, including what you can do to help.

If you’re having serious suicidal thoughts or are thinking of ending your life, there is crisis support available to you. You can dial or text 988, open an online chat with the National Lifeline, text hello to 741741, or visit your nearest emergency room.

Do you know the warning signs of suicide?

One of the most powerful ways to help prevent suicide is to learn how to recognize the warning signs that someone might be feeling suicidal. When you’re able to recognize that someone needs support, whether that be the mental wellbeing of an employee or a friend, you’re more likely to be able to help them in a timely manner.

According to the American Society for Suicide Prevention, most people who die by suicide do show at least one sign that they’re having suicidal thoughts. These warning signs are especially important to pay attention to if they’re paired with a stressful event or sudden change in the person’s life – something like a divorce, job loss, and so on.

Some of the most commonly seen warning signs for suicide include:

  • Behavioral changes: You may notice sudden and unexplained shifts in behavior, like withdrawal from social interactions and isolating oneself.
  • Talking about death: People who are thinking of suicide often talk a lot about feeling hopeless, wishing they were dead, or not having a reason to live. Take these things very seriously.
  • Performance decline: At work, you might notice a sudden drop in performance or productivity.
  • Mood swings: The person might have frequent mood swings or get irritable more easily.
  • Hopelessness: Listen for expressions of hopelessness, helplessness, or feelings of being trapped.
  • Searching methods of suicide: You might find out that someone has been searching for methods to end their lives or trying to gain access to a weapon. This should be taken very seriously.
  • Self-criticism: Be aware of increased self-criticism or negative self-talk.
  • Giving away possessions: Watch for signs of giving away personal belongings or making final arrangements.
  • Saying goodbye: Be alert if someone says goodbye in a way that sounds final or unusual.
  • Increased substance use: Notice an increase in alcohol or drug consumption.
  • Reckless behavior: Pay attention to engaging in risky or reckless behavior without concern for consequences.

What to do to help someone who may be thinking about suicide

If you’re concerned that someone in your life is thinking of ending their life, then it’s important to act as quickly as possible. The wellbeing of employees and friends alike is very important to pay attention to. When people feel listened to and supported without judgment, they tend to feel less hopeless and overwhelmed. You can be the one to help and support a suicidal person in this way. In general, you can follow these 5 actions for suicide prevention suggested by the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline:

  1. Ask the person about how they’re feeling. Don’t be afraid to ask them directly if they’ve been thinking about taking their own life. Despite common misconceptions, asking people directly about suicide can actually decrease, not increase, suicidal ideation.
  2. Talk to the person and listen to them with empathy. Your simple presence can make a huge difference. Check-in with the person regularly and make sure they know you’re there for them and that they matter to you.
  3. People without access to lethal means (like a firearm) are much less likely to die by suicide. Take necessary actions to keep the person physically safe. For example, you might ask them if you could store their firearm or drugs for them until they’re feeling more hopeful.
  4. Connect them to helpful resources. Stay with the person while they call one of the crisis resources above. Go with them to an emergency room or crisis center. Help them get in touch with their therapist. Treat the situation like the life-threatening emergency that it is.
  5. Follow up with the person continuously, especially after they’ve been discharged from a hospital or another type of treatment. Don’t forget about them after the immediate crisis passes.

Suicide prevention at work: What role do employers play?

Most working-age adults spend many of their waking hours in the workplace. This means that employers have an enormous responsibility – and opportunity – to create a priority for mental health and actively support suicide prevention through employee wellbeing initiatives.

Here are some actions that employers can take. This Suicide Awareness Month, take a look at your workplace policies and culture and consider what may need to be improved.

  • Raise awareness. Educate employees about available mental health resources, including hotlines, support groups, and online platforms. This information should be easily accessible and openly discussed.
  • Destigmatize Mental Health Conversations. Encourage open dialogue about mental health to break down stigmas. Training sessions or workshops can help managers and employees navigate these conversations appropriately. Lead by example, and talk about your own mental health as well.
  • Offer flexible work arrangements. Recognize that mental health struggles can impact your employees’ ability to work consistently. Providing flexible schedules or remote work options can alleviate stress and promote work-life balance.
  • Develop comprehensive mental health policies that include guidelines for addressing concerns, accommodations, and resources. Ensure these policies are communicated clearly to all employees for their wellbeing and workplace success.
  • Offer mental health training for managers and supervisors to recognize the warning signs of suicide (and other mental health concerns) and respond effectively.
  • Develop a clear crisis response plan that outlines steps to take in case of a mental health emergency. This can help ensure a fast and appropriate response when an employee is in need.
  • Promote an overall supportive work environment. Cultivate a workplace culture that values well-being. Recognize achievements, encourage breaks, and discourage overworking.
  • Consider partnering with mental health organizations. Collaborate with local mental health organizations to access resources, training, and support for employees.

Lastly, your Employee Assistance Program (EAP) is a mental health resource that’s always at your disposal. The MINES & Associates EAP offers free and confidential counseling 24/7 to all of our members. Our team is staffed by doctoral-level psychologists, clinical social workers, and masters-level therapists who can provide help and support for an employee who may be in need. Employee wellbeing is important for the greater good in all of society.

To learn more, get in touch with us!

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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It’s back-to-school season, and if you’re a parent, you’re probably experiencing a lot of mixed emotions. Part of you may be relieved that you’ll get some of your time back, but you might also feel sad about summer vacation being over. Many parents also face heightened stress and anxiety during the back-to-school season.

Especially in today’s world, it’s completely understandable to feel anxious about sending your child to school. You might worry about what could happen to them. Many parents also feel stressed at the thought of having to reinstate school-year schedules and rituals (like early wake-up times).

It can be a challenge to cope with your own anxiety on top of whatever feelings your child is having about going back to school. With the right stress management and support, you can get through one of the most difficult times of the year as a parent and protect both your own and your child’s mental health.

Stress management tips for parents for coping with your own anxiety

It’s important to realize that as stressful as going back to school can be for some kids, it can be just as anxiety-inducing (sometimes, even more so!) for parents as well.

There are so many reasons why you, as an adult, could be facing anxiety about your kid(s) going back to school. You might feel sad about the rapidly passing years, especially if this is your little one’s first time at school. You might, understandably, worry about the dangers that your child could face at school. Your child may have struggled – socially or academically – at school before, which adds to your anxiety.

Whatever it is, your feelings are valid. It can be very scary to let go and allow your child enough independence to go to school and enter a world where you aren’t there to protect them.

As valid as these feelings may be, it’s also critical that you’re able to cope with anxiety. Not only is back-to-school anxiety harmful to your overall mental health, but it can also add to any anxiety that your child may be feeling.

Here are some tips for coping with your own anxiety about back-to-school.

Name it

Trying to ignore your feelings isn’t likely to make them go away. Although healthy distractions can be a good coping skill when emotions become overwhelming, at some point, it’s necessary to face them.

Naming what you’re feeling can make the feelings hold less power over you. Rather than constantly trying to push these feelings aside, try recognizing them and naming them. Own what you’re feeling: “I am anxious about my child going back to school.”

You can even try naming, specifically, what you’re anxious about. “I’m frightened about school shootings.” “I’m worried that my child will get in trouble.” “I’m anxious about my child getting bullied.” Self-awareness of your thoughts and feelings is an important part of coping.

Even if naming your feelings doesn’t make them get any less intense, it’s a good first step toward stress management and getting support.

Talk about it

Talking to other parents about your worries may help you feel validated and calm. Find a stress management support system of people you can talk to and count on. You might be connected to some other parents at your child’s school; if not, try joining an online support group or talking to friends and family members.

If your child is feeling anxious about going back to school, it’s important to maintain open conversations with them about it as well. But it’s critical that you don’t project your own worries onto your child. Kids pick up on underlying feelings, and it’s important they know that you have confidence in them.

Any conversation you have with your child should be to help them feel more confident; these conversations are not an appropriate place to work out your own feelings.

Focus on the positive

It’s also important to identify any thinking patterns that could be making you feel more anxious. Many people ruminate when they’re facing stress or anxiety – this is when we go over our worries over and over again in our minds. This isn’t helpful, and can actually make anxiety worse.

Instead of ruminating on the worst-case scenario, try focusing on the positive aspects of back-to-school. For example, what do you hope your child will get from going back to school? What are the things they enjoy at school; who are their favorite teachers and friends? What are the positives for you – for example, what will you do with the extra time?

Trying to intentionally redirect your mind to the positive can help you get out of the downward spiral of anxiety.

Seek stress management support

If your anxiety feels overwhelming, or if the worries and negative thoughts just won’t go away, then you could benefit from professional mental health support. Seeing a mental health counselor doesn’t mean that you’re “crazy” or “weak.” Many people see counselors for all sorts of reasons.

A mental health professional can help you:

    • Work out your feelings and where they’re coming from

    • Feel validated in your emotions and experiences

    • Identify and challenge negative thinking patterns that might be causing you to feel worse

    • Learn new coping strategies to deal with painful feelings

You don’t need to wait until you’re in a mental health crisis to start working with a mental health counselor. Back-to-school anxiety is a perfectly understandable reason to seek professional support, and it can keep your mental health from ever going into crisis mode.

You may even have free access to a licensed counselor through an EAP like MINES & Associates. If we are your EAP, all you need to do is get in touch, and we can connect you to a free and confidential counselor 24/7.

How to help your child deal with back-to-school anxiety

On top of your own worries, you may also need to help your child with their own back-to-school anxiety. Many children face separation anxiety when starting school. They may also have valid concerns, just like you do, about what could happen to them while at school.

Here are some stress management tips to help your child get through back-to-school anxiety and have a successful and happy school year.

    • Validate their feelings. Try to avoid saying things like, “Don’t be silly, of course you won’t get bullied.” Find a way to validate their feelings without accepting their fears as the truth. For example, you might say: “It’s very scary to go into a situation where you don’t know anyone, and it’s understandable to worry that you’re going to get bullied. I believe that you’ll make lots of friends, and if you do get bullied, I’ll be right there by your side to work through it together.”

    • Project confidence. Don’t allow your own worries to impact how your child feels. Even if you aren’t 100% confident yourself, try to make confident statements when you talk about school with your child.

    • Practice routines. It can be helpful to start getting into the routine of school before the actual first day. For example, you could start an earlier wake-up time, drive by the school, or even make an appointment so your child can meet their new teacher.

    • Have open conversations about more serious problems. Especially with adolescents, it can be critical to know the signs of things like substance use, bullying, self-harm, and more. Talk to your child openly about these topics and support them in navigating them.

Here at MINES & Associates, we’re rooting for both you and your child(ren) to have a successful 2023-24 school year.

As always, if you’d like to talk to a counselor or have any questions about your benefits, you can get in touch with us.

To your wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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Could Counseling Be the Missing Piece in Your Overall Well-Being? https://minesandassociates.com/could-counseling-be-the-missing-piece-in-your-overall-well-being/ https://minesandassociates.com/could-counseling-be-the-missing-piece-in-your-overall-well-being/#respond Tue, 04 Apr 2023 15:42:34 +0000 https://minesblog.wordpress.com/?p=4650 When you think about your well-being, you might consider things like whether you’re exercising enough, eating nutritious meals, and getting plenty of restful sleep every night. Some people might also think about how they’re doing in terms of their mental health – for example, you might try to pay attention to signs of depression [...]

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When you think about your well-being, you might consider things like whether you’re exercising enough, eating nutritious meals, and getting plenty of restful sleep every night. Some people might also think about how they’re doing in terms of their mental health – for example, you might try to pay attention to signs of depression or manage your stress in healthier ways.

You may not think of counseling as a way to improve your well-being. Most of us tend to think of counseling as something you need when you’re already unwell. For example, you might see a counselor if you’ve recently experienced a loss or are having marital problems.

But just like you’d see a personal trainer for fitness needs or a spiritual advisor to connect more with your faith, you can see a counselor to improve your mental and emotional well-being. You don’t need to live with a mental illness to benefit from seeing a counselor. In fact, counseling could be the missing piece in your overall well-being – and if you’re part of MINES & Associates’ Employee Assistance Program, it’s a free service that you have at your disposal.

Let’s discuss how counseling might be able to benefit you, and how to get started if you’re interested.

The benefits of counseling for your health and well-being

Counseling, or talk therapy, is often used as an effective treatment intervention for mental health conditions. But that’s not all counseling is good for. Many people go to counseling simply to maintain their well-being.

There are so many benefits of counseling for your health, whether or not you live with a mental health condition. Counseling can help you:

    • Become more aware of your thoughts and emotions

    • Have a safe and confidential space to explore those thoughts and emotions as well as past experiences

    • Learn skills to better manage stress

    • Improve your sense of self-worth and self-esteem

    • Become more compassionate with yourself

    • Set personal goals and be accountable to them

    • Live a more meaningful life that’s aligned with your deepest values

    • Explore underlying issues that may have stemmed from childhood or other past experiences

    • Make healthier decisions

    • Manage strong and painful emotions like anger or grief

    • Encourage you to making healthy changes in your life, including changes in your physical health habits (like exercise or sleep)

    • Improve your communication skills and strengthen your interpersonal relationships

    • Make you feel less alone

    • Ensure you’re setting aside time to take care of your mental and emotional health

By seeing a counselor, you can ensure that every part of your well-being is taken care of. Well-being isn’t just about being physically healthy. It’s about addressing every aspect of your health, and feeling physically, emotionally, mentally, socially, spiritually, and financially at your best. Counseling can help you address many of these areas.

If your well-being is important to you, but continue to feel like you’re not living up to your full potential, it could be that counseling is the missing link.

Overcoming common concerns about counseling

There might be some things that have held you back from seeing a counselor. But it’s important to understand that while all of these concerns are valid, some are based on myths that simply aren’t true.

Some common reasons people don’t see a counselor (even though it could benefit them) include:

    • Stigma: People may worry about what others will think of them if they find out they are seeing a counselor. Although things have improved, there is still a big stigma against getting mental health support, and it’s valid to be concerned. In reality, counselors and other mental health professionals are bound by confidentiality laws, and they will never speak to anyone about your sessions except under specific emergency situations. No one has to know that you’re seeing a counselor if you don’t want them to.

    • Finances: People could also be under the impression that counseling is expensive and not often covered by insurance. Although this is true in some cases, there are exceptions. For example, your employer may offer an Employee Assistance Program that provides free counseling.

    • They don’t have a mental illness: Some may believe that counseling is only a treatment for those who live with a mental illness like depression. While counseling is very effective in treating mental health conditions, people see counselors for many different reasons that have nothing to do with mental illness. For example, people could see a counselor to be more accountable to their goals or simply to deepen their self-awareness.

    • Not knowing where to start: Some people don’t see a counselor simply because they don’t know how to find one. This is valid, and some communities do face lower access to mental health treatment providers than others. However, there may be some avenues in which you can access counseling easily – for example, through your EAP.

    • Discomfort talking about personal issues: Many people find the idea of talking about personal issues to someone outside of their inner circle very uncomfortable. You may not be used to sharing intimate details of your inner life to anyone else. It may help to know that part of your counselor’s role is to build a strong therapeutic alliance with you. This may take time, but your counselor will work together with you to ensure that a trusting and safe relationship is built.

What to expect in counseling

It can be scary to start counseling when it’s your first time. Some people find it helps to know what to expect.

Choosing the right counselor is important. Define for yourself what it is that you’re looking for in a counselor. Different counselors have different approaches. They also have different areas of expertise – for example, if you want to address relationship concerns, then it may be helpful to work with a counselor who is trained in this area.

In the first counseling session, your counselor will focus on getting to know more about you. They may ask you questions about what you’re hoping to gain from counseling, your past experience with counseling, your mental health history, and more. They will start building a therapeutic alliance with you right away in these initial stages of counseling.

The first session is also an opportunity for you to ask questions. You can ask questions about the counselor’s style, whether or not you will receive homework between sessions, cancellation policies, information about insurance and billing, and more. If there is something important that you’d like the counselor to know, then this is a great opportunity to share – although you don’t need to share everything in one session.

Assessment may take several sessions. Your counselor may gather information to develop an appropriate plan and make a diagnosis when appropriate.

What comes next may depend on what theoretical orientation your counselor is working from. Some counselors may help you work on your relationship skills, while others may help you to address and challenge unhelpful thinking patterns, while others may help you process past trauma.

How long you are in counseling also depends on your specific situation. Some people are only in counseling for a few months, while others are in counseling for several years. Just like seeing a personal trainer, it depends on your goals and what you’re hoping to gain.

No matter what type of counselor you work with, certain things will remain true across the board. For example, all licensed counselors are bound by confidentiality laws. This means that they are legally required to keep the information you share confidential.

There are a few exceptions – if you are at risk of hurting yourself or others, then the counselor may need to share information to keep you and others safe. Counselors are also mandated reporters, which means that if you share that a child is being abused, then they will need to report this information to the appropriate authorities.

How to get started with counseling

If you’re interested in reaching holistic well-being through counseling, then there are many ways to begin.

Some people find their counselor through their health insurance. You can also ask your primary care provider, or other community members, for recommendations. Going through your Employee Assistance Program is a quick and hassle-free way to get started with counseling. MINES & Associates’ EAP provides 24/7 free and confidential counseling as well as managed behavioral health care and more. Get in touch with us to learn more about your benefits and see how counseling could help you.

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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Stress Awareness Month: Managing Your Fight/Flight/Freeze/Fawn Response https://minesandassociates.com/stress-awareness-month-managing-your-fight-flight-freeze-fawn-response/ https://minesandassociates.com/stress-awareness-month-managing-your-fight-flight-freeze-fawn-response/#respond Mon, 03 Apr 2023 15:17:38 +0000 https://minesblog.wordpress.com/?p=4651 It’s Stress Awareness Month, and we here at MINES & Associates are reflecting a lot upon stress and the insidious ways in which it shows up in our lives. Stress is normal – and in many ways, unpreventable. We will all feel stressed at some point in our lives. And while this may be [...]

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It’s Stress Awareness Month, and we here at MINES & Associates are reflecting a lot upon stress and the insidious ways in which it shows up in our lives.

Stress is normal – and in many ways, unpreventable. We will all feel stressed at some point in our lives. And while this may be true, that doesn’t mean that we should do nothing and let stress build up until it becomes unmanageable.

To kick off Stress Awareness Month, let’s take a deep dive into what, exactly, stress is, the truth behind the fight-flight-freeze-fawn response, and what the research says about lowering your stress levels. Mines & Associates offers mindfulness programs that can help with stress.

What is stress?

We mostly talk about stress as a negative thing – we might be worried about the health impacts of stress or try to manage our stress in healthy ways. In reality, stress isn’t always a negative thing – but it can definitely have negative impacts, especially when it becomes chronic.

Stress is the body’s natural response to challenges. Humans feel stress when they are faced with something that feels difficult. For example, you might feel stress when you’re on a time crunch for a work project or before you go on a first date. Some physical experiences, like going through surgery, may automatically cause your body to respond with stress. Exploring our mindfulness programs can also help with the body’s natural response to stress.

The stress response is started by your autonomic nervous system – specifically by your sympathetic nervous system. When you’re faced with a challenging situation, your nervous system kicks in the stress response, which causes important changes in your body. Some of these change include:

    • Your heart beats faster and harder to get more blood flow to your muscles and limbs

    • You start breathing faster

    • Certain hormones like adrenaline and cortisol are released

    • Your blood vessels constrict

    • Your muscles contract to get ready to move or fight

    • Your immune system is suppressed (as this isn’t necessary for immediate survival)

    • Other bodily functions that aren’t necessary for immediate survival, like digestion and reproductive functions, are suppressed

Evolutionarily, these changes that happen during stress helped humans to overcome challenges. For example, when faced with a predator, we may have needed more blood flow to our muscles in order to either fight the predator off or run away from it.

Even today, stress helps us to get through challenges. For example, the hormones released during the stress response might give us enough energy to meet a tight deadline.

The health consequences of chronic stress

So stress, in and of itself, isn’t necessarily a bad thing. The problem arises when stress becomes long-term, or chronic. Our bodies aren’t designed to have the stress response activated all the time. And research has linked chronic stress to many health consequences, including:

    • High blood pressure

    • Other cardiovascular problems like increased risk of stroke and heart failure

    • Weakened immune system

    • Gastrointestinal problems like stomach ulcers, acid reflux, and irritable bowel syndrome

    • Chronic pain and muscle tension

    • Weight gain and obesity

    • Problems sleeping

    • Substance abuse

    • Increased risk of mental health conditions like depression and anxiety

What is the fight/flight/freeze/fawn response?

You might have heard of “fight or flight,” which is another way to describe having your stress response activated. When you’re under stress, you can’t make responsible or healthy decisions. Historically, our ancestors may have felt the need to fight – go on the offensive and beat the predator or stressor – or flee (flight) – run away from the stressor.

We now know that fight and flight aren’t the only two stress responses. Some people freeze when they’re under stress. They may feel so frightened that they aren’t able to act at all.

More recently, experts have defined a fourth type of stress response – fawn. Some people may try to appease the “predator” as a way to cope with it.

The fight/flight/freeze/fawn response comes up when we’re under acute stress. For example, if we are being yelled at by a boss, a child jumps out in front of our car, our fight/flight/freeze/fawn response might kick in. This response is often automatic – we may not be able to make reasonable decisions while we’re in fight/flight/freeze/fawn. Be sure to contact Mines & Associates to learn about our mindfulness programs to address these types of response.

Here are some examples of what the fight/flight/freeze/fawn response could look like in today’s world.

Examples of the fight response

    • Becoming aggressive or argumentative

    • Getting into fights with loved ones

    • Getting road rage

    • Raising your voice instead of calmly talking it out

    • Making threats

    • Insulting others

    • Becoming confrontational

    • Having an emotional outbursts

    • Directly confronting the stressor (such as fighting off a barking dog)

Examples of the flight response

    • Avoiding confrontation

    • Calling in “sick” to avoid dealing with something stressful

    • Quitting your job when you feel stressed

    • Leaving a relationship

    • Ignoring emails and calls

    • Fleeing dangerous places to ensure their safety

    • Walking away from difficult conversations

    • Delegating tasks that they feel are “too much” for them

Examples of the freeze response

    • Deciding to say nothing rather than speak up

    • Postponing important decisions or allowing others to make them for you

    • Feeling physically immobilized when confronted with a danger (like a barking dog)

    • Becoming completely quiet and numb during confrontation

    • Zoning out during difficult conversations

    • Feeling frozen and incompetent when responsible for difficult tasks

    • Staying frozen and doing nothing after a trauma (like a car accident) rather than seeking medical care or taking action

    • Allowing important deadlines to pass because they have procrastinated

Examples of the fawn response

    • Bringing your boss coffee after they have given you negative feedback

    • Working extra hard to make your boss happy when you feel that they are upset with you

    • Complimenting or being extra sweet toward your partner when you are having an argument

    • Taking on extra work to be seen as a team player.

    • Over-apologizing for things that aren’t your fault

    • Putting others’ needs above your own

    • Trying to act subservient to appease someone you find dangerous or threatening

    • Verbally agreeing with someone even if you don’t truly agree with them

Every person has a different response to stress, and you may not  fit neatly into one of these categories. The important thing is to recognize when you’re acting out of your stress response and to find ways to manage stress in healthier ways.

How to effectively manage your stress levels

Again – stress, in itself, isn’t a bad thing. But if your stress levels begin to get too high, or if you notice that you’re under stress more often than not, then it’s important to take action and find ways to feel more relaxed.

Different stress management techniques work for different people. For example, some people may like to listen to music, while others may enjoy talking with their friends. But try to remember that stress is an automatic biological response. So a large part of managing your stress effectively has to do with dealing with it on that biological level. Our mindfulness programs can help manage stress as well – be sure to contact our team to learn more.

Here are some evidence-based ways to bring stress down.

Diaphragmatic or deep breathing

One of the biggest changes that happens in your body when your stress response is activated is that your breathing becomes faster and more shallow. You can counteract this by regularly practicing deep or diaphragmatic breathing techniques. This directly calms your stress response by activating the parasympathetic nervous system and letting your body know it’s okay to relax.

One popular breathing technique is the 4-7-8 breathing exercise. First, breathe in for 4 counts through your nose. Get the air deep into the bottom of your belly. Then, hold your breath in for 7 counts, and finally, release the air slowly for 8 counts.

Progressive muscle relaxation

Progressive muscle relaxation, or PMR, is another effective way to kick your parasympathetic nervous system into gear. It’s also a way to relieve muscle tension that often comes along with stress. There is a large body of evidence that suggests PMR is very effective for lowering stress levels.

To practice PMR, find a comfortable seated or lying down position. Starting at the top of your head, tense and then release groups of muscles. First, you might tense all of the muscles in your face. Squeeze your eyes shut, clench your jaw, and crunch your nose with as much strength as you can without causing yourself pain. After several seconds, release all of the tension. Breathe in and out.

Work your way down your body, tensing and then relaxing each muscle group – your neck and shoulders, arms, abdomen, and so on.

Get into nature

Have you noticed that you feel more relaxed when you’re near an ocean or another body of water? Or perhaps in the middle of a quiet forest? There is actually research behind this – studies have found that people who spend more time in nature are less likely to be stressed and anxious.

Spend as much time as you can outdoors. If you don’t have a large natural space where you live, try to at least go for walks outside and pay close attention to the natural sights, sounds, and smells that you experience.

Prevent stress build-up

On top of these ways to calm your stress response when it’s already activated, you can also learn how to manage stressors (things that cause you stress) so that your stress levels never become chronic to begin with. For example, many people work on learning how to manage their time so that they don’t become overwhelmed with tasks. You might practice mindfulness to become more conscious of the signs that you’re under high stress.

Living a healthy lifestyle by sleeping well, eating nutritious meals, and exercising regularly can also be helpful.

Seek professional support

Working with a counselor can also give you new tools to manage stress in healthy ways. With your MINES & Associates Employee Assistance Program, you have access to 24/7 free and confidential counseling. Whether you’re buried under chronic stress or simply want to learn ways to manage it before it gets out of control, give us a call to learn about our mindfulness programs.

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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