Preparing your child for back-to-school: A mental health checklist

As parents, we often focus on the practical aspects of back-to-school: getting supplies ready, learning new schedules, and so forth. But for both parents and kids, the hardest part of returning to school is often coping with the change and its effects on mental health.

Change is hard for kids. That’s why predictability and routines are so highly emphasized by childhood development experts; when a child’s life is predictable, they feel safe. This doesn’t mean that transitions and changes can’t be navigated successfully – but you might have to make sure you’re supporting your child’s mental health throughout this process.

Here’s a checklist of some things you can do to help your child navigate the big change of “back-to-school” with courage and resilience.

• Establish a routine: Start establishing a consistent routine a few weeks before school starts to make the change more gradual. This includes regular bedtimes, wake-up times, and meal times. A predictable routine can help your child feel more secure and reduce anxiety.
• Discuss expectations: Talk to your child about what to expect when school starts. Discuss their new schedule, any changes in transportation, and what their daily routine will look like. Knowing what to expect can help reduce anxiety.
• Encourage open communication: Create a safe space for your child to express their feelings about going back to school. Let them know it’s okay to feel nervous, excited, or even scared. Validate their feelings instead of minimizing them. For example, try to avoid saying things like, “It’ll be fine,” or “There’s nothing to worry about.”
• Visit the school campus: If it’s possible, consider going with your child to visit the school before the first day. Show your child where their classroom is, the cafeteria, the bathrooms, etc. When your child is familiar with their environment, they may be less anxious.
• Role-play scenarios: Role-play different school scenarios with your child, such as meeting new classmates, asking the teacher for help, or dealing with a difficult situation. This can help them feel more prepared and confident.
• Create a worry jar: Encourage your child to write down their worries about school and put them in a ‘worry jar.’ Set aside a specific time each day to go through the worries together and come up with strategies to deal with them. This can help open
• Practice relaxation techniques: Teach your child simple relaxation techniques like deep breathing, mindfulness, or muscle relaxation strategies. These techniques can be used anywhere, even at their desk, and can be a good coping skill if they start to feel overwhelmed at school.
• Focus on the positives: Without undermining your child’s anxiety or stress, try to help them focus on the positives of back-to-school. What are some things, however minor, that they’re excited about?
• Create a visual schedule: Especially for younger children, create a visual schedule for the first few weeks of school can be helpful. Include activities, school hours, and any special events. This can help your child visualize their day and feel more in control.
• Establish a calming bedtime routine: Getting enough restful sleep is essential to mental health. A calming bedtime routine can help your child unwind and get a good night’s sleep. Consider activities like reading a book, listening to soothing music, or practicing relaxation exercises.
• Prepare a comfort item: If it’s okay with their teacher, allow your child to bring a small comfort item to school, such as a keychain, a small toy, or a family photo. This is sometimes called a transitional object, and can provide a sense of security and familiarity in a new environment. Transitional objects can also help with separation anxiety.
• Monitor and adjust: Even if their first day back at school goes well, continue to regularly check in with your child to see how they’re coping with the transition. Be flexible and ready to adjust your approach based on their needs and feedback.

Tips for parents during back-to-school season

As hard as back-to-school season can be for kids, it can be just as challenging – if not more so – for parents. Back-to-school brings up a wide range of emotions, from relief (you’ll get some of your free time back!) to sadness and anxiety (you’ll miss having your child at home with you, and you’re nervous about how they’ll fare at school).

As a parent, it’s important to take care of yourself, too. While you go through the above mental health checklist to support your child at this time, make sure you’re also paying attention to how you feel and any support that you might need to cope well with this transition.

These tips for parents may help:

• Allow all emotions to be present, even if they’re uncomfortable. It’s normal to feel a mix of relief, sadness, anxiety, and excitement as your child heads back to school. Accepting and acknowledging these emotions without judgment can help you process them more effectively and provide a healthy model for your child.
• Let go of perfectionism – the first day of school will probably be chaotic; to keep your sanity, it may help to remember that this day doesn’t need to be “Pinterest-perfect.” Embrace the messiness and focus on what truly matters: your child’s well-being and happiness. A few forgotten items or a rushed breakfast won’t overshadow the love and support you provide.
• Maintain a consistent routine for yourself to help manage stress and keep things predictable. Establishing regular self-care practices, such as exercise, meditation, or reading, can provide stability and help you stay grounded during this transitional period.
• Communicate openly with your partner or other family members about how you’re feeling. Sharing your experiences and emotions can provide mutual support and help you feel less isolated. Working together as a team can make the back-to-school transition smoother for everyone involved.
• Allow yourself to seek professional help if needed. Talking to a counselor can help you identify and manage painful feelings that may arise as your little one goes off to school. A therapist or counselor can also provide tools and strategies to cope with anxiety, sadness, or other challenging emotions, and ensure that you’re well-supported during this time.

Reaching out to your EAP can be a great way to get mental health support during this transition as well as other challenging times you might face. At MINES & Associates, we offer 24/7 free and confidential counseling for our members, as well as parenting coaching services to help you navigate the back-to-school season and all the other challenges of being a parent.

MINES is wishing you and your family a happy 24-25 school year!

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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In this article, we’ll explore 10 unique self-care strategies you can easily incorporate into your workday.

Why is self-care important?

Too often, self-care is misunderstood as a luxury or “extra” in life – but this couldn’t be further from the truth. Self-care is simply about making sure your basic physical and emotional/mental needs are met. Without practicing regular self-care, you’re more likely to become overwhelmed with stress, which can then lead to very real health consequences like a weakened immune system, high blood pressure, and a higher risk for a wide range of physical and mental health problems.

For example, get restful sleep. Many of us don’t think of sleeping 8 hours a night as “self-care,” but it’s one of the most important things you can do for your overall well-being. And when you don’t practice this type of self-care, your health can worsen dramatically. People who are sleep-deprived are more likely to have anxiety and depression, high blood sugar levels, and more.

At work, self-care is important for feeling both productive and fulfilled. When you practice effective self-care techniques at work, you feel happier – plus, you prevent burnout, which is on the rise in every field.

10 self-care strategies for the office

As your employee resource program (ERP), we’re here to help you practice self-care even when you’re at work. Here are 10 unique self-care strategies you can use in the office, including both at your desk and on breaks.

Take lunches outside

Spending time in nature, especially on sunny days, has been shown to give a boost to your mood and your overall mental health. When the weather permits, take your lunch breaks outside and bask in the sunshine – just make sure you use sunscreen! If you have a park near your office, that’s even better.

Get a standing or walking desk

Many office jobs are sedentary, and living a sedentary lifestyle leads to negative health consequences. Stay moving by getting a standing desk and/or walking pad. This can help you keep your body moving and may even boost your productivity levels as well.

Connect with your colleagues

Having a strong social support system is one of the best things you can do for your overall health. If you feel safe doing so, spend some time socializing with your coworkers. It may interrupt productive time in the moment, but in the long run, it can prevent burnout and help you feel more supported at work.

Declutter your desk

A cluttered workspace has been linked with higher levels of stress and decreased productivity. Take some time to declutter your workspace. While you’re at it, consider decorating it in a way that makes you feel calm and happy. For example, you might add some plants, words that inspire you, or photos of loved ones.

Think about ergonomics

Sitting at a desk all day can cause problems with posture, especially when your desk setup is uncomfortable. Consider investing in an ergonomic workstation that helps maintain your physical health and prevent musculoskeletal problems. Some workplaces will even help cover the cost of ergonomic office equipment – you can talk to your supervisor or HR department for more information.l

Take a few mindful breaths

Mindfulness is an ancient practice that helps you be more present in your everyday life. It’s been shown to reduce stress as well as symptoms of depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders. The best part is that you can practice mindfulness anytime, anywhere – you don’t need to sit on a meditation cushion for long periods of time.

Remind yourself to take just a few mindful breaths in and out periodically throughout the day. Inhale and exhale slowly, noticing how the air feels moving in and out of your nostrils. You might find it makes a bigger difference than expected.

Set personal goals

Goal-setting is an important part of maintaining your mental health and preventing burnout. On top of the goals that you’ve set with your supervisor, consider setting personal goals as well. What are your most important values in life, and how can you change the way you work so that you live more in alignment with them?

For example, perhaps one of your core values is kindness – can you work towards doing more random acts of kindness for your colleagues? Living in alignment with your values can help you feel more fulfilled at work, which leads to improved mental health.

Stay hydrated

Even though most of us are aware of the importance of hydration, reports show that 3 in 4 Americans are chronically dehydrated. Dehydration can lead to physical health effects as well as cognitive effects like lack of focus, fatigue, brain fog, and burnout. Make sure you’re staying sufficiently hydrated at work. It can help to have a large water bottle on your desk – if that doesn’t work, set a timer to remind you to get a glass of water every hour.

Put on some music

Research shows that listening to music can have positive mental health effects, and can even release neurotransmitters that reduce stress. Consider putting on some music while you work, even if you need to use headphones. Different types of music can evoke different emotional responses, so choose wisely – consider whether you want to feel relaxed, energized, or focused. Music can be an effective and free self-care technique when used in the right way.

Have boundaries

Lastly, protect your internal peace by setting strong boundaries at work. Different boundaries work for different people, but it’s important to notice what makes you feel overwhelmed and burnt out, and implement boundaries that protect you from those things. For example, maybe you consistently get asked to complete tasks that are outside of your job description, or you get calls and emails long after the work day is done.

Set clear boundaries and communicate them to your supervisor and colleagues. This can go a long way toward helping you prevent burnout and improving overall mental health.

Connect with your EAP

As your Employee Assistance Program (EAP) provider, we’re here to support you in finding practical ways to prioritize your well-being, even amidst the demands of the workplace. We offer 24/7 free and confidential counseling for all of our members. Taking advantage of this service can be a great way to practice self-care both at work and at home.

Connect with us today!

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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While mental health awareness is crucial year-round, BIPOC communities face additional hurdles in terms of their mental health, from racial trauma to limited access to culturally competent treatment. By openly discussing BIPOC mental health, we can foster a more inclusive and supportive work environment where everyone feels comfortable bringing their whole selves to work.

In today’s important blog, we explore BIPOC mental health and offer actionable steps your organization can take to support BIPOC employees.

Why is it important to talk about BIPOC mental health?

We celebrated Mental Health Awareness Month in May. Some may ask, “Why do we need to celebrate BIPOC Mental Health Month separately when we’ve just had an entire month dedicated to mental health?”

But it’s important to understand that BIPOC — an acronym that includes Black people, Indigenous people, and other people of color — faces unique challenges when it comes to mental health. Although, of course, BIPOC are included when we talk about general mental health awareness in May, it’s also important to highlight the unique experiences that affect BIPOC mental health (and access to treatment) that do not affect white people equally.

In the workplace, it’s important to talk about mental health, and BIPOC mental health specifically, because mental health is something that affects every employee. Long gone are the days in which we were expected to keep work life and the rest of our lives — including mental health issues and racial identity — separate.

Managers now understand that to build a psychologically safe workplace, employees must feel free to bring their whole selves to work without fear of judgment. BIPOC have worked for so long in corporate cultures that required them to change themselves to be accepted. BIPOC employees may feel that mental health issues could further OSTRACIZE them.

By openly talking about and uplifting BIPOC mental health, both during July and throughout the year, you make it clear that BIPOC employees are accepted and welcome in your organization just as they are.

Issues and challenges that affect BIPOC mental health

Mental illness doesn’t discriminate, but unfortunately, we’ve seen that the mental health system – just like every system – does. BIPOC face unique challenges in their daily lives that affect their mental health. In addition, BIPOC experience barriers to mental health treatment that make it more difficult for them to get the help they need and deserve.

Here are some of the unique barriers and challenges that many BIPOC face in terms of mental health.

Racial trauma

BIPOC continues to experience the effects of racial trauma, historical and current. Not only do many BIPOC, including Native/Indigenous Americans and descendants of enslaved people, experience the far-reaching effects of generational trauma — but they also continue to be the target of racial harassment, microaggressions, and institutional racism.

Research shows that this racial trauma has led to symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in many affected BIPOC. PTSD can heighten the risk of other mental health problems, including depression and anxiety.

Cultural mistrust and lack of culturally appropriate providers

As of 2019, 70% of U.S. social workers, and nearly 90% of mental health counselors, were white (according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics). This matters because many BIPOC have a mistrust of the U.S. medical system, and white practitioners in particular – a mistrust that, unfortunately, has been well-earned throughout history.

Language is also a barrier for BIPOC who have immigrated from other countries. Mental health providers who speak languages other than English are scarce. Research shows that limited English proficiency predicts significantly fewer mental health treatment visits.

Therapists, at large, are working toward improving cultural competence and humility, and increased cultural understanding between therapists and their clients has been linked to better treatment engagement. But until the psychological workforce becomes more diverse, this mistrust is unlikely to go away completely.

Lack of insurance

In the United States, a lack of health insurance is also a significant barrier to mental health treatment access for BIPOC. Nearly 20% of Hispanic people, and over 10% of Black people, are uninsured, compared with around 6% of whites. This is likely due to multiple complex factors, including economic disparities.

Without health insurance, BIPOC individuals often don’t have a way of covering the cost of mental health treatment services.

How your organization can support BIPOC mental health & employees

Your organization can take significant actions to help support BIPOC mental health and improve treatment access. Reports show that most individuals access mental health treatment through their jobs. In addition, satisfaction and happiness at work can significantly affect mental health for all employees.

Here’s how to support BIPOC mental health in your organization, not only during July but throughout the year.

Raise awareness

Having open and honest conversations about mental health is one of the cornerstones of creating a supportive and psychologically safe workplace. BIPOC Mental Health Month can serve as a starting point for ongoing discussions throughout the year.

Organize workshops or invite guest speakers to address the specific challenges faced by BIPOC communities. By integrating mental health awareness campaigns and resources into your company culture, you can normalize seeking help and reduce mental health stigma.

Review DEI policies

Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) policies are crucial for building a workplace that embraces BIPOC employees. Review your existing DEI policies with a focus on mental health. Do they include provisions for reasonable accommodations for mental health needs?

Good DEI policies and practices are also important to ensure that BIPOC employees feel emotionally safe at your company. Consider trainings, including unconscious bias training and anti-racism trainings, to ensure managers understand how microaggressions can impact BIPOC’s mental well-being.

Build and encourage employee resource groups

Employee Resource Groups (ERGs) provide a valuable support system for BIPOC employees. These groups can offer a space for shared experiences, fostering a sense of belonging and community.

Encourage the creation of BIPOC-focused ERGs, or support existing ones through funding and resources. Having a strong support system at work can help BIPOC employees feel safer and mentally well.

Ensure good mental health benefits

Helpful and accessible mental health benefits are essential for supporting BIPOC mental health as well as the mental health of all employees.

Review your current health insurance plan to ensure it provides adequate coverage for mental health services. Consider offering options with lower deductibles or copays for mental health treatment. Including Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) is also important. EAPs offer confidential counseling and resources, and can play a key role in helping BIPOC employees find culturally competent care and navigate the complexities of the healthcare system.

MINES offers a comprehensive workplace mental health solution that provides culturally competent care for all of your employees.

To your wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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Commemorating Juneteenth in your workplace can be an opportunity to reflect on your company’s DEI practices and the relationship you have with Black employees and community members. However, it’s important to celebrate Juneteenth in ways that are actually meaningful, not just to recognize the day on a surface level.

Today, we offer 25 meaningful ways to celebrate Juneteenth in your workplace.

Why is it important to recognize Juneteenth at work?

Just like commemorating Veteran’s Day honors those who have served in the military, Juneteenth is an important day that honors the Black American community and the essential contributions they have made to this country. We undoubtedly have a long way to go, but the recognition of Juneteenth as a national holiday is one important step toward spreading awareness about Black history and the Black American experience.

When you recognize Juneteenth at work, it’s a way to take a clear stand. You are telling your employees, as well as the general public, that your organization supports Black American rights and that you stand in solidarity with the Black community.

Although this support and solidarity should never stay confined to special days like Juneteenth — there are ways to proudly stand for Black rights and uplift Black employees all year long — June 19th is one opportunity, of many, to reflect on your organization’s practices and ensure Black employees are treated equally.

25 ideas on how to celebrate Juneteenth at work

Here are 25 ideas on how to celebrate Juneteenth at work in a meaningful way. Some ideas are geared toward workplace leaders (to celebrate with the whole staff), while others are meaningful ways you can celebrate within your team or even by yourself.

Which ones will your organization implement this Juneteenth?

1. Give employees the day off

Just like employees are given the day off on other important holidays, consider making Juneteenth an organization-wide holiday if you haven’t already.

2. Review your DEI policies

To truly uplift your Black employees and colleagues, there needs to be structural change. Review DEI policies and practices to ensure that Black staff are getting equal opportunities.

3. Offer anti-racism training

Juneteenth can be an opportunity for solemn reflection on how much work there is left to do to truly achieve racial equity. Take the time to work toward this goal by offering anti-racism training to staff.

4. Support Black-owned businesses

Support local Black-owned businesses; for example, you can ask a Black-owned restaurant to cater an employee lunch or order employee gifts from a Black-owned shop.

5. Host a Juneteenth speaker series

Invite Black speakers to host workshops about different topics that affect the Black community. Just make sure to pay all speakers well for their time and labor!

6. Offer leadership development for Black employees

Black employees often don’t get the same opportunities for promotions and upward movements as their white counterparts. Ensure that your Black employees have access to leadership and professional development opportunities.

7. Create a Black Employee Resource Group (ERG)

If you don’t have one already, create an ERG for Black employees. Research shows that ERGs help employees feel a stronger sense of belonging at work.

8. Partner with a Historically Black College or University (HBCU)

Partner with a local HBCU to provide scholarships, internships, or continued education opportunities for staff.

9. Show a film

Host a screening of a documentary or film that teaches staff about Juneteenth or other issues that affect the Black community today.

10. Create an online learning portal

Offer education and resources about Juneteenth and Black History by creating an online learning portal that employees can access.

11. Incentivize self-reflection

Provide incentives for engaging with Juneteenth, such as incentivizing non-Black employees to self-reflect on their privilege or implicit biases.

12. Start a book club

Start a book club, and invite members to read one book by a Black author each month.

13. Partner with local organizations

Partner with local organizations that serve the Black community for giving opportunities, including corporate donations.

14. Highlight Black artists and musicians

Celebrate Black art and music history by creating and sharing playlists of songs by Black artists.

15. Create Black mentorship programs

Pair Black senior employees and leaders with newer staff to create mentorship opportunities for Black employees. This can help make it more likely for Black employees to gain access to upward mobility at work.

16. Implement accountability measures

Creating DEI policies is a good start, but it’s not enough. Implement measures to help you stay accountable to these policies.

17. Conduct an anonymous survey

Anonymous surveys can be a psychologically safe way for Black employees to offer feedback about your organization’s DEI practices and how supported they feel as a Black person in your company.

18. Juneteenth reflection prompts

Share daily reflection prompts about racial identity and privilege for employees to answer and discuss in team meetings or by themselves.

19. Invite staff to local museums

If your city has a museum or cultural center focused on Black history, purchase entry tickets for employees so they can visit and learn.

20. Create a Black scholarship fund

Establish a scholarship fund to support Black students pursuing higher education. Match employee donations to the fund.

21. Ensure culturally relevant mental health support for Black employees

Ensure your EAP (and any other mental health benefits) offers resources and support tailored to the needs of Black employees.

22. Partner with a Black leadership organization

Collaborate with a Black leadership organization to develop internship or job shadowing opportunities for Black students.

23. Start a Juneteenth committee

Encourage employees to form a Juneteenth committee to plan future celebrations and advocate for racial equity initiatives within the company. Employees should always be paid for their time, including overtime pay.

24. Publish a DEI report

Develop a company-wide report outlining diversity and inclusion goals, progress made, and the steps that you have yet to take.

25. Promote Juneteenth on social media

Use your company’s social media platforms to increase awareness, share educational content, and celebrate Juneteenth.

We hope that this list has given you some ideas of how you can meaningfully celebrate this important day at work.

Happy Juneteenth!

In solidarity (and to your wellbeing),

The MINES Team

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1. Save a Ton of Money

Imagine watching your savings grow as you ditch the smoking habit. The cost of cigarettes adds up quickly, and by quitting, you can redirect that money towards something more meaningful—whether it’s a dream vacation, a new hobby, or simply a healthier bank balance.

2. Live Longer

Quitting smoking can significantly increase your lifespan, giving you more years to create unforgettable memories with your loved ones. Enjoy more birthdays, holidays, and everyday moments with the people who matter most.

3. Feel Incredible

Boost your self-esteem and feel fantastic about yourself. Quitting smoking can improve your physical health, enhance your sense of well-being, and give you the confidence to take on new challenges.

Let’s Get Started on This Exciting Journey Together

If you’re unsure how to start, MINES is here to guide you every step of the way. One powerful tool we recommend is MindCotine, your quit-smoking companion available through our Employee Assistance Program (EAP).

MindCotine: Your Quit-Smoking Companion

• Access Quitting Help Anytime, Day or Night: The MindCotine app provides 24/7 access to resources like progress tracking, expert advice, and coping strategies. Quitting smoking is easier with support.
• Real Support from Real People: MindCotine offers personalized coaching to support your journey. From overcoming challenges to celebrating milestones, we are here for you every step of the way. Let’s create a plan together for a smoke-free life.
• Quit with the Power of Virtual Reality: Ready to quit and transform your life? MindCotine’s program uses virtual reality to make your journey fun and effective. Imagine stepping into a world where you can see your progress, practice stress relief techniques, and stay motivated—all without leaving your home.

Take advantage of World No-Tobacco Day and make the decision to quit smoking today. With the right tools and support, you can achieve a healthier, happier, and smoke-free life. Let’s embark on this journey together and make today count! Contact MINES today to learn more.

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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May is Mental Health Awareness AND Sports and Physical Activity Month. How appropriate that the two are celebrated together as movement is one of the most effective tools for supporting and enhancing mental wellbeing. What’s truly incredible is, that no matter what you do, your brain will benefit. Come along as I show you all the ways you can move for your mind.

1. Cardio Exercise

The brain needs oxygen and nutrition to develop and perform at an optimal level. Elevating heart rate is a great way to increase blood flow, delivering an abundance of valuable resources. The endorphins released act as natural pain relievers and promote a sense of calm. An influx of dopamine and serotonin helps regulate mood and you will likely experience enhanced overall emotional well-being and feel more capable of handling life’s challenges.

Walk, wiggle, jog, jump, hike, bike, scramble or skip—proceed with your preference. As long as the heart rate is elevated your noggin will be nourished!

2. Strength Training

Do you struggle to lift or carry things and worry that you will injure yourself? Do you dread a particular activity because it is physically difficult? Are you missing out on adventure because you don’t have the strength to accomplish or enjoy it?

From daily tasks to life experiences, our confidence and capabilities are perpetually impacting our mental and emotional well-being. Physical strength opens up a world of possibilities to lead a full and fulfilling life.

The work to become physically strong also offers mental health benefits. Each time you choose to challenge your muscles, you are proving you can do hard things. The discipline of consistency is a trait that governs the path to success in all areas of life. The pride you develop builds confidence and self-esteem.

Life is easier and more enjoyable when you are strong. Lift some heavy things and watch yourself flourish.

3. Yoga

The mental health benefits of this mind-body practice have been touted for decades. In addition to resetting the nervous system from high alert to peaceful calm, the brain training going on is literally changing your mind. Each time your thoughts drift off the mat, you gently coax your attention back, building the skill to redirect your focus. As you manage a full schedule of daily to-dos a wandering mind is often not helpful. Your awareness and the ability to be present is not only useful for productivity (which makes us feel good) but shifting out of the past or future also squashes a cortisol release.

Find a class or scout out a video, bring your mind to the mat, and soothe your soul. Devote to the practice and see yourself soar.

4. Choreographed Activities

Tai-Chi, dance routines, martial arts—any activity that requires instruction, memory, and multi-system coordination offers a well-rounded brain boost. The struggle of the steps leads to joy in mastering the moves. You can find yourself in flow with the repetition of rhythmic patterns. Depending on the activity, you will be energized or relaxed.

Don’t be afraid to try something new. Practice patience and practice until perfect. You’ll start to see yourself differently, and I bet you’ll like it.

5. Organized Sports

Sports, whether team or individual, offers so many opportunities to support mental health. Facing and overcoming challenges are embedded in the nature of every sport. Problem-solving, determination, and perseverance are tested and tackled, building foundational skills that translate off the field, court, mat, etc.

Team sports, as well as other group activities, offer a shared experience that bonds the participants. Working as a unit toward a common goal presents opportunities to give and receive support and whether celebrating or commiserating, the social connection is crucial for mental well-being.

Find a league, join a club, or gather a group. Camaraderie and competition are ingrained in our DNA. Feed this need and you’ll be good as gold.

Connecting these dots, it’s clear why movement is magical for your mind. Perhaps the most obvious and simplest explanation of all—you generally feel good when you know you’ve done something good! With the variety of options available, you can customize a prescription to suit your needs.

Work off some stress with a high-intensity activity. If you are looking to bring peace and calm into your life, opt for a slower-paced, mindful practice. Join others for the social support, or go solo for some “you time.” Do any of the above while out in nature for an additional mental health boost.

There is no denying a daily dose of exercise will make you healthy, happy, and wise!

Do yourself a favor and get your move on!

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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Today, we’re spreading awareness about self-harm, including the causes, warning signs, and tips to help a young person you love.

What is self-harm (non-suicidal self-injury)?

Self-harm is when someone intentionally hurts themselves physically. The clinical name for self-harm is non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI). Not every incident of someone hurting themselves falls under the umbrella of NSSI; some people hurt themselves because they are suicidal. Non-suicidal self-injury describes when someone hurts themselves

The most well-known method of non-suicidal self-injury is cutting, or when people make shallow cuts on their skin. But cutting is far from the only method; others harm themselves by:

• Biting skin
• Scratching themselves
• Hitting their head against a wall
• Punching themselves
• Pulling out hair
• Burning themselves with matches or cigarettes
• Poking objects through the skin

Young people – children, adolescents, and young adults – are at the highest risk of self-harm. Research shows that over 25% of teens aged 12 to 16 had thoughts of self-harm, with at least 15% acting on these thoughts. Unfortunately, studies have shown that self-harm rates among youth increase each year, with self-harm rates among girls increasing at an especially alarming rate.

However, it’s important to keep in mind that anyone can self-harm, including boys and older adults.

Why do people self-harm?

Self-harm is highly misunderstood; many people mistake self-harm as a form of suicidal behavior. However, self-harm, at least behaviors that fall within the umbrella of non-suicidal self-injury, is not an attempt to end one’s life.

People self-harm for various reasons. Some of the most common reasons include:

• To try to feel something when they feel emotionally numb
• To distract from emotional pain by causing physical pain
• To distract their mind from upsetting thoughts or memories
• To release powerful emotions like loneliness, despair, or anger
• To punish themselves for perceived faults, mistakes, or inadequacies
• To regain a sense of control over their life
• To try to cope with a difficult experience like bullying
• Because self-harm has been so normalized among their peers

Some people don’t know why, exactly, they self-harm. This is normal.

Even though self-harm itself isn’t a suicidal behavior, research shows that teens who have self-harmed are over 3 times more likely to attempt suicide in the future than those who have never self-harmed. Young people also often accidentally put themselves in life-threatening situations while self-harming (for example, by cutting themselves deeper than they intended). Self-harm is a sign that someone is in severe emotional distress, and needs to be taken seriously.

Warning signs of self-harm

One of the first steps to helping someone who self-harms is to notice the signs. When you educate yourself on the warning signs of self-harm, you’re more likely to realize when a loved one is engaging in it.

Self-harm doesn’t have a “look,” just like depression or anxiety don’t have looks. People of any gender or age can self-harm, but young people are at higher risk.

Here are some warning signs of self-harm in teens to look out for:

• Scars (cuts, scabs, bruises, or burns), often found in clusters or patterns
• Frequent unexplained wounds or cuts
• Making excuses for wounds or cuts
• Wearing long sleeves and pants, even when it’s hot out
• Traces of blood on clothes or towels
• Suddenly seeking to do their own laundry or take out their own trash
• Hiding razors
• Withdrawing from friends and family

If a young person you love is showing these signs, then it could be that they’re self-harming – and need your support.

How to help a young person who is self-harming move towards self-love

It can be unfathomable and intensely painful to learn that someone you love, especially a teen or a young adult, is hurting themselves intentionally. It’s devastating to realize that they don’t see themselves as you see them, and you wish you could do something to help them love themselves.

Recovery from self-harm can be a long journey. It becomes an addiction in many ways; it brings temporary relief from emotional pain, and even though the person knows that it’s not a long-term solution, it may be difficult to stop.

But just because they can’t quit right away doesn’t mean that you can’t do anything to support them. A trusted adult’s support is essential for young people as they learn to love themselves and treat themselves with care.

Here are some ways you can support the young person in your life who is self-harming.

• Approach them first. It can be hard for young people to bring up the conversation. If you suspect they are hurting themselves, don’t beat around the bush. Ask them directly: “I noticed cuts on your arms. Are you hurting yourself?”
• Don’t judge, even if you don’t understand. The last thing a young person needs to hear is, “Why would you do this to yourself?” Statements like this can come from a place of caring but also tend to make young people feel misunderstood and judged.
• Focus on their pain. Acknowledge how much they must be emotionally suffering to hurt themselves in this way. Validate their feelings. Even if something doesn’t feel like a big deal to you, it’s still a big deal to them.
• Make your home safe. If the teen lives with you and is using objects, like razors, to hurt themselves, work with them to limit access to these objects.
• Connect to resources. Talk to your pediatrician to get a referral to a mental health provider. You can also get in touch with your Employee Assistance Program for referrals or counseling.
• Provide unconditional love. Let the teen know that you don’t see them differently and that their self-harm behaviors don’t change your love for them. Make it clear that your concern for them comes from love, not from shame or disgust.

There is hope. With support from a trusted adult, young people can successfully stop self-harming and learn to love themselves.

Self-harm resources for teens and young adults

If you struggle with self-harm, here are some resources that can help.

• To Write Love On Her Arms is a non-profit organization dedicated to supporting people who struggle with self-injury, depression, and suicide.
• A.F.E. Alternatives is a treatment program for self-harm that also provides a wealth of information and resources.
• The Trevor Project provides phone, text, and chat support for LGBTQ+ young people facing self-injury and other mental health challenges.
• The Adolescent Self-Injury Foundation provides resources for teens and their caregivers.
• The Crisis Text Line operates 24/7.

If you (or someone else) are having a mental health emergency, dial 988.

MINES & Associates EAP is available to employees as well as their household members. All family members can receive 24/7 confidential counseling support for issues like depression, stress, and more. In addition, we provide 4 parental coaching sessions per year to teach you how to better support your teen or young adult who may be self-harming.

Take advantage of this free resource and get in touch with us today.

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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March is National Nutrition Month, so we are going to talk about your brain. Trust me, it will make total sense. Over the last few years, I have been involved in and facilitated many conversations about mental health. It’s gratifying to be part of a movement where people are beginning to be comfortable speaking up about their own struggles and others are eager to learn how to recognize and support someone working through challenges.

As people gain awareness and build a mental health toolkit, it gets filled with practices to reduce and manage stress. Mindfulness, breathing, journaling, and therapy, all have a positive impact on mental health. Creativity and physical activity are both magical for our minds. Recognizing and regulating emotions is a valuable life skill and once developed will enhance mental wellbeing. Laughter and high-quality social interactions are easy ways to get a dopamine hit—and who doesn’t like that!?

Noticeably absent from the discussion, however, is the topic of food. I find this fascinating, as we like to talk about food all the time—what we should eat, what we shouldn’t eat, what we are going to eat, what we just ate, etc. Rarely are we talking about it in the context of mental health.

And yet, we have some kind of feeling about nearly every food (and beverage) choice we do or don’t make. Those feelings generate beliefs, which ultimately drive our actions. And throughout the entire cycle, there are multiple impacts on our mental health.

So let’s talk about it.

Food is:

• a friend who soothes and comforts you
• entertainment when you are bored
• a delicious distraction when you don’t want to deal with a situation in front of you
• an element that helps you relive fond experiences
• something that brings joy as you connect with culture or celebration
• a reward for doing something hard
• something you can’t live without

Food also:

• is an enemy who prevents you from being your best self
• can be an obstacle to reaching your goals
• alters decision-making capabilities
• brings on feelings of guilt and shame
• is an anxiety-inducing element of social engagements
• leads to punishing thoughts and behaviors
• is something you can’t stop thinking about

We each have a unique relationship with food, and it’s usually rather complex. Exploring, acknowledging, and adjusting yours will likely lead to enhanced mental health. What to eat, when to eat, how much to eat, and how we feel about what we eat—all are important pieces of the dietary puzzle. Most of us have never been taught the basics, which makes the complicated pieces impossible to sort out.

So let’s go basic.  Eat real food.

If, in theory, you could go outside and find, it’s real food that a human body recognizes and understands how to process. These foods grow in the ground and hang off bushes and trees. You can find real food swimming in water and roaming in a pasture. Real food can take a little bit of effort to get into edible form, but it’s fairly simple to determine how it came to be what you are about to ingest.

What does real food have to do with your mental health?  Everything.

Whole foods (WF) offer the raw materials your body uses to create cells, organ tissue, muscles, bones, hormones, neurotransmitters, protective layers, micro-organisms—-and everything else an optimally functioning human needs. The alternative, what I call “food-like substances” (FLS), offer little to no quality resources and instead supply your body with a variety of components it doesn’t need and cause it harm. If overall consumption of FLS is greater than consumption of WF the result could lean toward a less than optimally functioning human, maybe even one with various health conditions.

For many years I have been pitching PFF is Your BFF® (Protein Fat Fiber is your Best Friend Forever), as well as guiding individuals toward an understanding of how to fuel a human body. It’s impossible in the scope of this article to outline all the details, so here are a few highlights.

1. Steady blood sugar. It’s the key to your health and happiness—and maybe the health and happiness of people around you. When blood sugar drops, you might get irritated, frustrated, or find it difficult to concentrate. None of which is great for mental wellbeing. There’s a good chance you’ll reach for some version of sugar—and then beat yourself up for eating that sugar. And then eat more sugar to feel better about feeling bad for eating sugar. You know how this goes!
2. Protein, or more specifically the amino acids we get from consuming foods that have protein, are used to create hormones and neurotransmitters. These are the chemical messengers responsible for operating your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
3. Fat is your friend! Despite what we’ve been fed for decades, fat is not the devil. In fact, it is a key contributor to health and happiness. I don’t know about you, but back in the day when I was afraid to eat fat, I was hungry and irritated all the time. Turns out that wasn’t just my experience as we now have plenty of research to indicate that low-fat diets can increase the likelihood of depression, irritability, and anger. Dietary fats directly affect brain processes via transmission of signals and when you recognize that 70% of brain matter is made up of fat, it’s no wonder that low intake can cause dysregulation. Of course, the type of dietary fats matter. Eat real food, with a variety of sources of fat to nourish your noggin with essential fatty acids. Avoid the ultra-processed ones that often include some type of brain and body-damaging trans fat.
4. Fiber is, among other things, food for your gut bacteria. Referred to as the “second brain” the microbiome in the gut consists of communication pathways with every system in the body. There are direct links to gut imbalances and mental health and mood disorders. Fiber comes from plants, so eat plenty of them and a wide variety to offer your gut critters options for their feasting.
5. Have you ever heard of BDNF? Brain-derived neurotrophic factor is a chemical produced in the brain that supports overall cognitive function and mental wellbeing. It’s so powerful, that many consider it a natural anti-depressant and low levels may contribute to the onset of depression and anxiety. The raw materials for BDNF production need to be introduced to the body—via food. They include a variety of vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, and polyphenol compounds found in real foods. In addition, insulin resistance, often the result of a habit of highly processed food consumption, prohibits the brain from producing BDNF. Another reason to minimize FLS choices!

The message seems pretty clear—eat real food. Yes, the puzzle can be complicated, but I believe if you take time to learn the basics and gain an appreciation for the powerful impact various types of fuel have on mental health, the harder stuff will be easier to digest. Food can either heal you or hurt you. It’s determining the appropriate balance of choices, and having a positive attitude about ALL the choices that leads to a healthy attitude, not only about your food, but life in general.

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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This National Eating Disorder Awareness Week, MINES & Associates is taking the time to shine a light on eating disorders, how they manifest in the workplace, and how you can support colleagues and employees who have eating disorders – and who may be suffering in silence.

What is an eating disorder, and how do they present in the workplace?

Eating disorders are a complex category of mental illness characterized by an unhealthy relationship with food and – usually, although there are some exceptions – body image. There is a wide variety of eating disorder types, and they each have different symptoms. Some eating disorders cause people to severely restrict caloric intake, while others cause people to go through binge-eating episodes.

Generally, eating disorders are some of the most deadly mental illnesses that exist – anorexia nervosa, in particular, has the highest mortality rate of any psychiatric disorder. Eating disorders are not just “extreme dieting” – they are severely harmful to physical and mental health. We need to take them seriously.

With so many Americans living with an eating disorder today, it’s likely that at least one person in your workplace is facing this. However, because of the stigma and misunderstandings surrounding eating disorders, you may not be able to recognize the signs if you’re not aware of how eating disorders present.

Some signs that someone in your workplace may have an eating disorder include:

• Talking a lot about body shape and appearance
• Avoiding work gatherings where food is involved
• Having low energy or appearing lethargic
• Frequent trips to the bathroom, especially after eating
• Changes in appearance, like significant weight loss or gain, or looking pale
• Wearing baggier clothes to hide weight changes
• Constantly checking one’s appearance in mirrors
• Eating in isolation or being overly secretive about food and meals
• Decreased productivity and lack of concentration
• Expressing constant dissatisfaction with one’s body
• Preparing elaborate meals for others, but not eating the meals themselves

Keep in mind that although some eating disorders, like anorexia, can cause significant weight loss for some, most people with eating disorders aren’t underweight. You cannot spot an eating disorder just by looking at someone’s weight or appearance.

People who live with eating disorders can also be very high-functioning in the workplace, so don’t make the mistake of only looking at employees whose performance is faltering.

Perfectionism is a personality trait that’s highly linked with eating disorders in the literature. This perfectionism could lead someone with an eating disorder to reach for the highest achievements and accolades at work. However, over the long term, an eating disorder can negatively affect productivity and focus.

How to support someone with an eating disorder

If someone you work with is living with an eating disorder, they’re likely suffering alone. Eating disorders are often very isolating disorders that cause feelings of deep shame and guilt. People with eating disorders need treatment, but it may take time for them to be ready to come face-to-face with this fact. However, there are ways to support someone with an eating disorder even if they aren’t ready for treatment.

Here are some tips to support an employee or colleague who you suspect has an eating disorder.

Watch how you talk about your own body

Even if you don’t have an eating disorder, many of us have unhealthy views about food and our bodies. Talking negatively about your own body can be triggering for your colleagues with eating disorders.

For example, you might nonchalantly comment about skipping lunch because you overate last night, or make remarks about how a sweater makes you “look fat.” Although you may not live with an eating disorder, these off-hand comments can be triggering for people who do.

Watch the way you talk about your body and eating. You don’t need to express over-the-top positive feelings about your body – this might be triggering as well – but try to stay body-neutral, or avoid talking about your body altogether.

If you express concern, don’t focus on weight

You may have suspicions that someone has an eating disorder, and decide to express your concern. Whether or not you choose to approach the person is up to you and depends greatly on the relationship you have with them. But if you do decide to express concern, don’t focus on their weight – express concern about their overall mental health instead.

For example, let’s say you’ve noticed a colleague rapidly losing weight, although they’ve started wearing baggier clothes to try to hide it. They never seem to eat lunch, saying they had a big breakfast. You notice that they often come into work looking exhausted, and they’re calling out sick much more often than usual.

You may have concerns about an eating disorder, but it’s important not to make assumptions – many health conditions can cause these symptoms. If you choose to express concern, don’t talk about their body or weight. Instead of saying, “You’re looking too skinny lately. Are you eating enough?” say something like, “I’m concerned about you. You seem to be really tired all the time and you’re getting sick a lot. You just don’t seem like yourself. Is everything okay? I’m here to talk if you need to.”

If they share, listen

If a colleague shares with you that they live with an eating disorder, listen with empathy. Understand that telling you about their struggles is a sign of great trust, and respect the conversation as such.

Avoid all judgment; eating disorders are mental health conditions, just like depression or anxiety. The person is not “choosing” to have the relationship that they have with food, so avoid comments like, ‘Why would you starve yourself like that?”.

You may feel the desire to help the person in some way, but it’s best to avoid unsolicited advice. Listen to them openly, and ask how you can support them.

Provide flexible working arrangements

Eating disorders are included in the American Disabilities Act, which means that any employee who discloses that they live with an eating disorder has the right to reasonable accommodations to be able to perform their job duties. Providing flexible working arrangements can help employees with eating disorders continue to succeed in their jobs while recovering.

Examples of workplace accommodations for eating disorders could include:

• Flexible working hours to allow for treatment appointments
• A private eating space during breaks (many people with eating disorders are uncomfortable eating in front of others)
• Leaves of absence for residential treatment, if necessary
• Access to support and resources, like an employee mental health program

Encourage professional treatment

Lastly, eating disorders don’t go away on their own. If your colleague is open to it, encourage professional treatment. Offer to help them look for resources – the difference between, “You should really get therapy,” and “I know it can be overwhelming to look for resources. I can help you call providers on our insurance plan,” can be life-changing.

The MINES & Associates Employee Assistance Program is a great place to start eating disorder support. We offer 24/7 confidential counseling to all of our members, and can refer to more specialized eating disorder resources as necessary. Call 1-800-873-7138 for support now.

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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This year, let’s all strive to take small steps to get closer and closer toward complete mental wellness. Here are 12 effective and easy-to-implement steps from MINES & Associates, a leading international psychology firm, and your Employee Assistance Program.

Tips to improve your mental well-being from your Employee Assistance Program

Here are 12 tips for 2024 to improve emotional and mental wellness – one for every month of the year. Make a commitment to choosing one to practice each month.

Tip #1: Reduce stress

Stress in short bursts is okay – but chronic stress – stress that sticks around over a long time – has countless health consequences and is a major barrier to mental wellness. Reducing your stress levels is one of the best things you can do for your overall health this year. What needs to change in your life for there to be less stress in your life? What boundaries may need to be set?

Tip #2: Practice relaxation

One of the best ways to reduce stress is to practice intentionally relaxing. You don’t need to be on a tropical beach with a drink in hand to relax. Relaxation is about activating a physiological response in your nervous system that counteracts the stress response. Strategies like deep breathing and progressive muscle relaxation have been shown to promote your body’s relaxation response.

Tip #3: Stay active

If you have a fitness resolution this year, there’s good news – physical activity can also get you closer to emotional and mental wellness! Research shows that aerobic exercise is profoundly effective for combating depression and anxiety, and can help you reduce your stress levels as well. Every time you sweat it out, you’re getting closer to mental well-being.

Tip #4: Connect with others

You can boost your mental wellness simply by spending time with your closest loved ones. Research shows that social connection has many benefits for well-being, but the reverse is also true – loneliness can have significant negative effects. If you feel lonely, make it a goal this year to connect more. Join local groups, try a friendship “dating” app, or even find a support group.

Tip #5: Be generous

Positive psychology researchers have found that doing random acts of kindness can improve mental wellness and fill you with pleasant feelings. It doesn’t have to be a huge act of kindness, like donating a large amount of money – even simple things will do, like holding the door open for someone or visiting a grieving neighbor.

Tip #6: Schedule doing nothing

We make so many goals for ourselves that we forget it’s important to do nothing, too! Leisure time is critical to mental well-being. We all need time to simply recharge, free of the pressure to do anything at all. Consider scheduling blocks of “nothing time” into your calendar, and resist the temptation to use the time to do something productive.

Tip #7: Prioritize sleep

Sleep is essential to wellness in every way. Sleep helps your brain process and learn, and allows your body to rest. Research shows that sleep deprivation is linked to many mental health problems including depression and anxiety. Most healthy adults should strive to get 7 to 9 hours of restful sleep every night.

Tip #8: Find meaning through values

Having a purpose in life is an important component of mental wellness. But how do you live a meaningful life if it feels like your job – where you spend most of your time – doesn’t give you purpose? Try finding ways to connect your everyday tasks, like your job, to your deeper values. For example, perhaps you value family – and your job gives you the means to support your family. This can help you feel like your life is more purposeful.

Tip #9: Reflect on what you’re grateful for

You’ve probably heard the advice to “be more grateful.” This advice isn’t about toxic positivity – it’s not about forcing yourself to feel grateful for everything. It’s about intentionally shifting your focus on the positive things in your life. Try starting a gratitude journal, where you write down everything that makes you smile. Find a “gratitude buddy,” and share with each other the best parts of your days.

Tip #10: Spend time in nature

This year, try to commit to spending as much time in green spaces as possible. This can be tricky during the winter months if you live in Northern latitudes, but being surrounded by nature can have benefits for mental health and can also reduce stress. It’s okay if you don’t have access to large swaths of wilderness – even sitting on a bench in a city park can have benefits.

Tip #11: Belly laugh

Laughter can help you feel immediately better when you’re distressed. Research shows that humor and laughter have numerous benefits to wellness, including physical and mental health benefits. What makes you laugh so hard that your belly aches? Is it spending time with a particular loved one, or watching your favorite stand-up comedian? Whatever it is, prioritize laughing this year – intentionally schedule it into your to-do list.

Tip #12: Talk to a counselor

Lastly, we tend to think of mental health counseling and therapy as something we access when we’re already feeling unwell. But counseling could be the missing piece to your overall mental well-being. You don’t need to wait until you’re in a mental health crisis to start therapy – many people see therapists to deepen self-awareness, learn stress management skills, and improve their self-esteem.

If you are subscribed to MINES & Associates’ Employee Assistance Program (EAP), then counseling is a free 24/7 service that you have at your disposal.

We hope you choose to use your EAP this year – we’re looking forward to working with you on your wellness goals.

To Your Wellbeing,

The MINES Team

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